It may seem like the narcissist is drawn to you or attracted to you, but if that were the case, it would be very easy for you to get rid of them by changing whatever it is about you that they're attracted to. However, that's not going to work with a narcissist because they're not really attracted to you; they're attracted to who they need you to be, which supports their false narrative and fantasy. This means that you can't stop attracting them because they've created a false

No matter what you do or don't do, the narcissist will always end up being disloyal and unfaithful to you. They will always disappoint your hopes and expectations. They will break their promises and let you down in the end. What gives them the ability to do that is your belief—your acceptance that something exists or is true when you don't even have any proof. As long as you have this blind faith and confidence in the narcissist, you will experience unfortunate circumstances.

The narcissist is not truly there. Their physical body may be present, but their disorder is characterized by an absence of self. All that's left is a mirage, a ghost of what once existed but no longer does. Their true self died a long time ago. What remains is a system of coping and defence mechanisms that make up their false self. There is nothing beneath or outside of that. When you converse with them, they never really listen. It's as if they are not giving you their full

Up until this point, you've acted friendly and agreeable with the narcissist. You've played by the rules and followed what you believe to be the correct line of behaviour. You've dealt fairly and honestly with them because you were taught that this is the correct way for people to behave in society; it's how you were raised. However, you can't do that around narcissists because they will only take advantage of it. They will use your honesty and kindness to exploit you. Narcis

Narcissists like to act tough and inaccessible, making it seem impossible to understand or affect them. However, the opposite is true; they are more susceptible and sensitive than normal people. They are easily affected, influenced, and harmed, but you don't always see that because they have already studied and learned about you, giving them the upper hand and a position of power. Because of this, they feel superior and believe they are unaffected by consequences or logical r

1. Exposing Their False Image Narcissists believe they are all-powerful, untouchable, and invincible. They think they can do whatever they want and remain unaffected by anything you do to them. They see themselves as grand and imposing, very important, and meant to be inaccessible and impossible to understand. However, this is just an illusion. When you realize this, it leaves them powerless. Exposing a narcissist is something they will never get over. They will forever hate

Gangstalkers are people who may be following, watching, and harassing you. This can include a vast network of individuals in your community. The more people involved, the more important you are likely to be. Gangstalking involves groups of narcissists and their "flying monkeys"—people manipulated into harassing you for the narcissist's benefit. These individuals often have an inflated sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy, and a need for excessive attention and admirati

The narcissist influences you by using supernatural forces, which have power over natural forces. They produce illusions by using deceptive devices with the intention to manipulate you. By putting you in a state of fear, they will use certain symbols to destroy your mind. It won't require much effort from them because once they've put you in a state of fear and anticipation, the rest of it is you destroying yourself. This is why it is important to be aware of it without feari

There are deeply degrading behaviours that are often practiced against unwilling participants, and these are commonly associated with malignant narcissists. Yet, this is not talked about enough. Many victims suffer in silence, which is why I felt compelled to create this post. This is especially important for victims of sexual abuse, whether male or female. As I’ve mentioned in previous videos, narcissists experience sexual attraction very differently from normal people. Thei

Desiring to have sex or wanting to feel attractive or desirable is completely normal. However, it becomes problematic when you are dealing with narcissists. They will use sex to manipulate and control you, leaving you feeling used, abused, and discarded. You may end up feeling undesirable, even if you never felt that way before. This is because you are now involved with an abusive narcissist who is only concerned about their own needs. Narcissists will deliberately orchestrat

This is a topic that, up until this point, no one else has touched on. I'm hoping that this video will inspire other creators to talk about it. We already know the effects that a smear campaign has on the victim or target, but what hasn't been discussed is the effect it has on the narcissist and their flying monkeys. Narcissists start smear campaigns for several reasons: - To justify their actions - To silence their target - To control the narrative - To influence others to t

Narcissists have an exaggerated sense of omnipotence, believing they have great power and influence, capable of accomplishing anything—even things that defy logic and reason. This belief gives them a psychological bind, causing a persistent lack of insight and awareness about the target's personality and behaviour. They are always fault-finding, overly critical, and often speak or act without thinking, a basic concept typically instilled in toddlers. This inability to grasp r

If you are involved with a narcissist—whether it's a relationship partner, family member, friend, or co-worker—it will change you. This is commonly known among psychologists and therapists. It is even more damaging if you are dealing with more than one narcissist, such as in your family or at work. The more narcissists you are dealing with, the more damaging it will be to you, and the more it will change you. You may lose your sense of self. You may lose your self-worth. You

It may look like the narcissist is doing better without you. You're suffering, and no one is there to support you while the narcissist is manipulating all of the unsuspecting enablers and flying monkeys. If you are a believer in God, this may be very confusing. You may be wondering how this is even possible. You may be wondering how God could allow the narcissist to treat you this way and how God could just let them get away with it. In actuality, God is not letting them get

This is why the narcissist is so difficult to deal with. It's no secret that narcissists are challenging. They're not easy to please or satisfy. They're awkward and often cause hardships and problems. Dealing with them requires a lot of effort and skill. Almost every interaction with them results in inconvenience, unfavourable outcomes, and inappropriate behaviour. They can be unfriendly, troublesome, stubborn, tiresome, exasperating, and demanding. It takes a lot of physical

The narcissist gave you a false character. They mirrored your virtue and ideals, reflecting it back to you. They lied and manipulated you, selling you a dream. You believed that you were connecting with them, but in reality, you were getting to know a false character, detached from their true self. This detachment is why they didn't feel bad when they were devaluing you. They saw themselves as separate and disconnected from you while also seeing you as an extension of themsel

The narcissist wants you to believe that you cannot affect them, as though no matter what you do, they will show no effects or changes. They act as if they are untouchable and cannot be punished or criticized in any way. However, the reason they act this way is actually because the opposite is true, and they don't want you to know about it. It's a front, an act of opposition, hostility, and defiance, but it is also a deceptive outward appearance. They use this as a means to p

When you are dealing with a narcissist, they want to project everything onto you. They want to hold you to blame for everything that went wrong, even when you had no connection to their past experiences. Narcissists want to relieve themselves of their problems and worries by passing them on to you because they lack a conscience. They don't have an inner voice guiding them to recognize the wrongness of their behaviour. They feel no urge to do right because they operate on a lo

Narcissists want you to believe they are omnipotent. All-powerful. Untouchable. As though they possess unlimited authority and can bend reality itself. But this image is nothing more than a carefully constructed illusion. Beneath the performance is not strength, but fragility. Not confidence, but fear. Narcissists are psychologically weak, deeply insecure, and highly dependent on external validation to survive emotionally. Before exploring the seven ways a narcissist can suff

Love bombing is often described as the opening act of narcissistic abuse. Excessive attention, constant admiration, and intense affection can feel intoxicating at first, especially to empathic individuals. Because of this, many victims assume that if they were not love bombed, something must be wrong with them. In reality, the absence of love bombing often has far less to do with your worth and far more to do with the narcissist’s psychology. Love bombing is not love. It is a