The narcissist has a very dark secret they don't want you to know. They are often quite good at hiding it, but the truth is that the core emotion of a narcissist is envy. They experience discontentment and resentment aroused by your possessions, qualities, or luck. They desire to have it or to have you all to themselves, which is why they try to control you. They see you as a possession that belongs to them. This is why they often feel and express bitterness and annoyance bec

Narcissists are always looking to create enemies by being actively opposed and hostile to people. They're always looking to weaken or harm you in some shape or form, causing you severe physical and mental suffering as though it's their only purpose in life. It seems like the only reason for their existence. The only thing they really know how to do is assess the risks, possibilities, or effects of a situation or a course of action to make a judgment, forecast, projection, pre

There are many things a narcissist won't want you to do when you are around them, but it really comes down to one thing: they do not want you to be yourself around them. Over time, you will find that you can't even be yourself because even if you manage to engage in activities you would normally enjoy, you won't find as much fulfillment in those things as you normally would. When you're around a narcissist, you are constantly being affected by or subjected to something, rathe

Sometimes narcissists leave and never look back because they believe they can continue to be successful without you. They think they can progress without interruption or impediment, without anything holding them back from doing what they want to do or being who they want to be. They may lead you to believe that you weren't good enough for them or that they found something better. However, you need to look at the behaviours you witnessed before they left, as that's typically w

When you reject a narcissist and go no contact, it doesn't mean it's all over. Rejecting a narcissist causes a narcissistic injury—an emotional trauma that overwhelms their defense mechanisms and devastates their pride and self-worth. They feel like their self-image has been criticized, slighted, or insulted. After you challenge their inflated sense of superiority, specialness, or entitlement, they become obsessed because they can't hook you or attract your attention. Narciss

There are a lot of weird and creepy things that a narcissist will do to you if you are around them long enough. The abuse tends to escalate over time as it becomes normalized. They become more and more dissatisfied as the initial thrill and feelings of excitement begin to fade away. This is why there is no cut-off point for the abuse; it is like a drug to them. Initially, the abuse may have been satisfying for them, like the first ingestion of a drug. But then those feelings

As difficult as it may be to believe, there are actually times when narcissists are vulnerable. I've seen it only a few times in my own experiences. It can be very rare, and it's more common with covert narcissists. However, in those situations, it isn't authentic; they will just resort to another form of manipulation to get their needs met. With full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), it is not only real but can be a very shocking, powerful, and unexpected turn o

For those who spend enough time around a narcissist, no one is immune to the devaluation where they begin to reduce or underestimate your worth or importance. They belittle you and put you down. In the beginning, they idealized you, love-bombed you, and put you on a pedestal. But as soon as you believe that what they were displaying to you was real, they began to devalue you. They criticized you, treated you with contempt, and it seemed as though they were more interested in

Narcissists cannot see people as individuals. They cannot view you as a separate entity or as a living soul. They objectify you, degrading you to the status of a mere object, a tool, or a toy, as if you had no feelings, opinions, or rights of your own. They dehumanize you, depriving you of human qualities and therefore your dignity. This is why they will strip you of your independence and try to control you. In their minds, you are their possession, just a thing that belongs

The narcissist already knows they're not being real or authentic. They know they're just a fictional character, an imaginary person. They lack any qualities that make them different, but in their minds, they think they're special or unique. In reality, they're just the same as any other narcissist, regardless of gender, age, or location. They all act and behave exactly the same, so they're no different from any other narcissist. They created this false character, which they b

Narcissists are very vengeful. They will often seek to harm you in return for a perceived injury. They can be resentful and unforgiving, holding grudges and refusing to forgive or excuse people's faults or wrongdoings. They can be bitter because they believe they have been treated unfairly. They can seem infuriated and exasperated, holding strong feelings of anger and dislike sometimes for a lifetime, because they believe you have treated them badly. They often seek satisfact

Narcissists are completely self-absorbed. They're preoccupied with their own feelings, interests, and situations. They only care about themselves and don't view others as real people. You're either a positive or a negative extension of them. Initially, you may not realize that you're a positive extension of a narcissist. Pay attention to how they treat the people around them, especially exes, waiters, employees, or anyone they deem inferior. This will reveal who and what you'

There is one thing that people often misunderstand or misinterpret, and it's completely understandable because narcissists are manipulative and deceptive. They can cause people to believe something that is not true in order to gain some personal advantage. They can give you a mistaken impression, and sometimes they can even fail to admit the truth to themselves. At times, it may appear as though the narcissist is looking for something. It may seem as though they're lonely and

There are many things that narcissists will never do, but one of the main things you should never expect from them is loyalty. They will never give or show firm and constant support and allegiance to you, to the positive and productive aspects of society, to a religious, educational, or social purpose, or to an established law, practice, or custom. They are never going to do that. Narcissists are never going to be loyal, honest, or trustworthy. They are never going to be able

As you may know, I have dealt with many narcissists in my life. Some of them were overt narcissists, while others were more covert. However, there was something that united them, making them more noticeable and striking. Regardless of their age, gender, or what part of the world they were from, they were all exactly the same. It was like encountering the same person in a different body. They all exhibited the same personality traits, with the only difference being their physi

When the narcissist comes back, they may appear very confused as though they've been caught off guard. They may be unprepared for a surprise or difficulty and might be the ones walking on eggshells around you. They may be extremely cautious about their words and actions, being very careful not to offend or upset you. Initially, it may not make any sense to you; you may not understand why they're acting so differently. It's like they're just waiting for something to happen. Th

Narcissists have a lot of pride and arrogance. They reveal an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance. They follow themselves and are highly opinionated, often coming across as condescending, hubristic, overbearing, and patronizing. They may treat you in a way that seems kind or helpful, but it betrays a feeling of superiority, as though they're better than you. This is why they typically like to be in positions of power and influence—they like to dominate and

There is a piece of information that is not generally known about the narcissist. It may be known by the people who watch my videos, but many of the narcissist's sources of supply, enablers, and flying monkeys may not be aware of this. The reality is that everything the narcissist does and everything you see from them is fake. It's an imitation done in order to deceive. Even when you think you've caught them doing something behind your back, whether they were lying, cheating,

Narcissists are fake. They are not genuine; they are an imitation of something real. Everything they do is intended to deceive you for their own personal gain. They give you a mistaken impression, causing you to hold incorrect beliefs and opinions based on a vague idea in which some confidence is placed. They may look like real humans, but that is just on the surface. It's an artificial intelligence, a machine, a piece of equipment that only works when it is given power. Thei

They deliberately cause you to believe something that is not true for their own personal gain. They give you a mistaken impression and sometimes they may even fail to admit to themselves that something is true. They may even be in denial, but regardless of that, they manage to drive this illusion with eagerness and enthusiasm as though they suddenly had this awakening, and it's the only thing that matters to them. They act as though they want to do or have something very much