Why You Must AVOID Having SEX With Narcissists

Desiring to have sex or wanting to feel attractive or desirable is completely normal. However, it becomes problematic when you are dealing with narcissists. They will use sex to manipulate and control you, leaving you feeling used, abused, and discarded. You may end up feeling undesirable, even if you never felt that way before. This is because you are now involved with an abusive narcissist who is only concerned about their own needs.

Narcissists will deliberately orchestrate situations to make you feel like there's something wrong with you, targeting your self-worth and self-esteem. They know that sex is a personal and private matter, making it easy for them to isolate you. This is why it's crucial to have communities where people can openly discuss their situations, realizing they are not alone and that others have been through similar experiences.

Narcissists have had years of practice in making you think that your sexual pleasure is unimportant and that only their pleasure matters. They may shame you for having sexual needs, calling you selfish or greedy. In reality, they are very insecure and may have experienced sexual trauma as children. They use sex to gain narcissistic supply because they lack an inner sense of value, relying on external validation.

In a sexual relationship with a narcissist, you will never feel truly desired. Instead, the relationship will be filled with gaslighting, making you think you're losing your mind. Narcissists care only about controlling you and making you feel inferior. They are incapable of having a normal relationship and will always manipulate and control their partners.

Experiencing this manipulation can be very painful. Narcissists lure you into a relationship, get you attached, and then make you feel undesired. They want to control you while devaluing you, always angry and jealous. They are fiercely protective, not wanting anyone else to take you away, yet they are also very interested in your past sexual encounters, making them even more jealous and possessive.

Narcissists will call you selfish for having your own sexual needs, as though you are not supposed to be a person. They will rage if you call them out, causing a narcissistic injury. Deep down, they know something is wrong with them, but they don't want to hear it. They will gaslight you, denying their jealousy even when it's obvious.

Narcissists often coerce you into sex, especially if they see you talking to someone else. They don't care about the act of sex; they care about control. They want you to prove that they are the only one, making them feel safe and secure. While worried about your infidelity, they may threaten to cheat on you if you don't comply with their demands. This can be very dangerous, as they may be sleeping around and having unprotected sex with others, potentially giving you STDs.

Narcissists lack empathy and may use STDs to control you, knowing that even if they leave you, you won't be able to enter a new relationship. They are possessive and controlling, often inflicting emotional pain and distress. They may even become violent, engaging in degrading or sadistic sex. It's best to avoid having sex with a narcissist before it reaches this point, as they are not suitable partners for a healthy sexual relationship.

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