The Narcissist Will BETRAY You No Matter What You Do For Them

No matter what you do or don't do, the narcissist will always end up being disloyal and unfaithful to you. They will always disappoint your hopes and expectations. They will break their promises and let you down in the end. What gives them the ability to do that is your belief—your acceptance that something exists or is true when you don't even have any proof. As long as you have this blind faith and confidence in the narcissist, you will experience unfortunate circumstances. When you finally come to your senses, you will realize that you have made a very big mistake. No matter what you do for them, they will always cheat, swindle, and exploit you in the end. It's just your belief that keeps you holding on as you go through this cycle of perceived loss and gain, doubting yourself while they're not even thinking about you in a serious way.

While you may not see it at the time, they already know that you're worth far more than what you're settling for. They know that at some point, you're going to get cold feet and realize that you've made a bad investment. This is why they've always got one foot out the door. They're just waiting for that moment when you wake up and finally realize what you've gotten yourself into.

Until that point, you're still giving them your serious consideration, giving careful thought and reflection as though you actually believe that it could amount to something worthwhile in the future. They've managed to gain your acceptance and belief, which are really the only things they need to keep you stuck. You should already know what you're dealing with after witnessing their behaviors over a long period of time. You should continue in this course of action with commitment and without any doubt, instead of treating them as though they're not your enemy or opposition. That's only going to put you back where you started. It's not going to cause you to gain any ground; it's only ever going to set you back even more.

You must move in a certain way to protect yourself by being aware of what they're trying to do to you. All they're trying to do is destroy you. They may come to you and try to play the victim, but they are always the initiators of everything that goes wrong because they orchestrate it all. They're just trying to get you to feel sorry for them so that you don't leave them. They know that you're empathic, so of course, it's very easy for them to play on your mind because you want to help. You don't want to let anyone down; that might make you feel guilty. You want to be the one who rescues them, but by doing that, you are making a big mistake.

You should be taking away your belief and acceptance from what is being presented and instead, you should be looking at it from a rational point of view where you're able to make a sensible decision. There is a clear ongoing pattern of behavior which should reveal to you that something is not right. It should allow you to remove yourself from the situation emotionally because everything they're telling you or displaying to you is just to leave you unprotected, where you are then vulnerable to attack when you were just trying to help them. That is how they keep you stuck. You can't help them; they don't even want you to help them. They just want to punish you. If you trust and believe in them, they're just going to drain you of your resources and support until you finally come to the conclusion that you should have trusted your better and initial judgment of never getting involved with them to begin with.

It's never going to be any good for you. It's never going to work to your advantage. They just manage to instill this belief in you that there is something good about them when really there is nothing good about them. It's just a false adherence so that they can get something out of you. Many people choose not to believe it and strive forward in an attempt to assist someone who is only going to exploit them in the end. It is all a game, and whether you get played or not really depends on your belief. It depends on whether or not you're still hopeful when you accept them as honest and deserving, even though you may have doubts. That is what puts you into trouble, where you're overlooking the ongoing patterns of behavior which are only going to repeat themselves. They're only going to continue their reckless self-sabotage and behavior even while you're trying to help them because that's just the nature of their disorder. They always do things that block their own success and prevent them from accomplishing their own goals. They always mess it up in the end, even when things are going well because deep down, they know that they don't deserve it. They know that they're lying to you and deceiving you, so they already know it's not going to amount to anything.

At some point, you're going to wake up and realize who and what you're actually dealing with, and then you're going to want to get rid of them. But by that point, you will have already lost so much from dealing with them. What got you to this point was your belief in them. If you believe you're dealing with a narcissist, you should never second guess yourself. Trust that you're making the right decision in taking yourself away from them because collaborating with them is only going to put you at a disadvantage. It's only going to set you back in life. It's never going to leave you in a better position than where you started.

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