This may be difficult to comprehend, but yes, narcissists actually enjoy spying on their targets. They take pleasure in secretly collecting information about your activities, movements, and plans because they view you as their enemy and competitor. When they spy on you, it distracts them from their miserable lives and gives them a sense of excitement, as though they are secret agents or part of the FBI—like they’re James Bond or something. This is often why they intentionally discarded you or...

You're in a relationship with a narcissist, but they're not the obsessive type. They're not particularly possessive or controlling, nor are they overly concerned about where you are or what you're doing. This is because they are entertaining other prospects. To them, people are for recreational use—amusement or fun—rather than for serious or practical purposes. Narcissists are often attracted to other narcissists. Their friends and other sources of supply are likely to be narcissists as well,...

Narcissists will steal your qualities, characteristics, traits, interests, drives, abilities, and values. They will act just like you, and you may never actually see their true selves. They won’t tell you who they are, what they’ve done in the past, or what they plan to do to you. Narcissists lack a true identity. They neglect self-development because they’ve done many bad things and don’t like who they are. They don’t expect you or anyone else to like them because they don’t even like...