7 WRONG Assumptions The Narcissist Makes About You

Narcissists have an exaggerated sense of omnipotence, believing they have great power and influence, capable of accomplishing anything—even things that defy logic and reason. This belief gives them a psychological bind, causing a persistent lack of insight and awareness about the target's personality and behaviour. They are always fault-finding, overly critical, and often speak or act without thinking, a basic concept typically instilled in toddlers. This inability to grasp reality leads them to make many wrong assumptions.

1. They Underestimate You

Narcissists often underestimate your intelligence, power, capabilities, and emotional strength. They don't entertain the possibility that your opinions and judgments are accurate. They overlook your ability to deal with challenges and bounce back, assuming they are greater than you. This underestimation is a big mistake, as they fail to see your true value and strength.

2. They Believe Their Flying Monkeys Can Save Them

Narcissists rely on their "flying monkeys"—people with their own personality disorders or mental illnesses—to do their bidding. These individuals are used to reverse the trend of events and pressure you into returning to the narcissist. However, these flying monkeys are often inadequate and fail to see they are being used.

3. They Assume You Will Always Be Under Their Spell

Narcissists think they are highly skilled in their lies and manipulations, assuming you will never figure out what's really going on. They are often careless, dealing with many issues simultaneously, which impacts their control over you. Despite your awareness, they continue their behaviour, believing their manipulations are still effective.

4. They Assume People Are Unaware of Their Dishonest Activity

Narcissists believe people don't know their true nature. However, many people see through the façade and choose not to get involved. Those closest to the narcissist witness their trickery, while others maintain superficial relationships. The narcissist's arrogance leads them to engage in risky behaviour, ultimately exposing their true character.

5. They Assume They Can Replace You

Narcissists are arrogant, believing they can control you and have you whenever they want. They think they created you and can replace you at any time. However, they fail to see that you have multiple options and don't need them.

6. They Assume You Will Never Recover from the Abuse

Malignant narcissists torment and persecute you, believing you will never move on and will always be within their reach. They assume you will never experience a healthy relationship. When you do move on, it makes them angry, as they don't want anyone to replace them.

7. They Believe They Should Still Be a Part of Your Life

Narcissists believe they should still have access to you, thinking they have done nothing wrong. Deep down, they know what they did, but they are in denial. They assume their power over you will never wane, but their delusions ultimately lead to their downfall.

Regardless of what narcissists assume, it never works out the way they want. Their assumptions don't impact reality and often lead to their descent. They lack empathy and can only relate to you by bringing you down, failing to see anything from your perspective.

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