Dealing with a narcissist is always a constant game. Even when it may seem like it's not a game, even when they may be smiling, laughing, or joking, they're still plotting against you. They're always trying to find a way to take you down, which is why they need to predict what you're about to do. They need to be two steps ahead of you, which I like to call the "anticipation mode." Narcissists have to anticipate your next move. They need to imagine or expect that something wil

It ended badly for you with the narcissist. Maybe they discarded you, or you got fed up and decided to leave them. Then there was this period of no contact because it ended in a really bad way, and there was no closure or validation. They didn't want to talk about it. They didn't tell you why they did what they did. They didn't apologize. Now, they're moving on to a better situation with better people—or at least that's what they want you to think. That's what you will see on

You should never trust a narcissist. Whether it's a relationship partner, family member, or friend, you cannot trust them because you're not on the same team. You don't share the same goals, which is why you may notice that they're not as enthusiastic as you are—they don't have your best interest in mind. Narcissists are very envious and jealous of you, which takes control of them. It changes the way they operate and prevents them from conforming to accepted standards of mora

Contrary to what people might believe, it is actually very easy to get over a narcissist by realizing a simple fact. As many of you think, the narcissist in your life is so special and important. You think there's something significant about them. You think they're powerful and attractive. You think they're so charming. But none of that actually matters in the grand scheme of things because, in time, they will be forgotten. People won't even remember their name. People won't

A lot of people think that narcissists are powerful and strong because they seem to have a lot of energy. It may appear that way at times, but they are actually very weak, and I will prove this to you in this video. Narcissists are unable to withstand force, pressure, and wear. They lack moral and intellectual power, confidence, and determination. They are easily influenced and worried by other people, which is why, whenever you're around them, you feel like you have to prote

You are watching this video because you believe you are being followed, stalked, and harassed by a large number of people. Most stalking occurs between people who know each other. In fact, four out of five stalking victims are women. Stalking involves a persistent course of behavior where the stalkers constantly try to manage and direct you against your will. They monitor and supervise you, attempting to lead or guide you into unfavorable situations. In many ways, they are tr

A lot of people don't recognize this, but the truth is that often, the power is in the victim's hands. You are unknowingly triggering the narcissist, causing them distress by arousing feelings or memories associated with their past traumatic experiences. Narcissists have a post-traumatic stress response, so their actions or behaviors are a reaction to their traumas. However, they don't self-reflect or self-loathe like normal people do. They feel worthless, inadequate, and inc

You may think that you've finally moved on, that you've gotten away from them. But narcissists are always watching. They're always engaged in careful observation. Even though you may not have heard from them for a while, even though they may have ghosted you, that doesn't mean they've completely forgotten about you. Their obsessive nature does not allow them to move on because just the thought of you preoccupies and fills their mind to a troubling extent. They're constantly t

The better you perform in life, the more the narcissist will hate you. Especially when you reach a point where most people would give up, it will only make them hate you even more. But there is actually a fine line between love and hate. Their emotions of love and hatred can be closely linked. This has been scientifically proven because the same brain circuitry is involved in both extreme emotions. Some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for hate are the same as

They hope you won't figure this out, and that is why they create a false character and the illusion. It's intended to deceive you, to make you believe that they're on the same page, to make you believe that they understand. When the truth is that they can't understand because they lack empathy. They're only concerned with their own self-interest and needs, which can change from one moment to the next. So it may often not even have any relevance to you. It may not always be so

The narcissist targeted you for several reasons. They selected you, picked you out of a group of people, and were drawn to you. They were attracted to you because they could see that you offered something of interest or advantage. You evoked a reaction from them, and then they became fixated on you. They developed an obsessive attachment to you, becoming preoccupied with you to the point where they were unable to think about anything else. When this happens, they become arres

The Narcissist will engage in many cunning acts and schemes to deceive or outwit you to deliberately cause you to believe something that is not true for their own personal gain. They give you a mistaken impression so that they can gain an advantage over you. They will devalue and degrade you, reducing your worth and importance. They will triangulate you with other people to make you question yourself, to make you believe that you're less than who you really are. This can lead

Narcissists are often difficult to deal with, and understanding what truly gets under their skin can be empowering. In this post, we'll explore a relatively new concept that I've observed in my studies of narcissistic groups and individuals. This concept revolves around the narcissist's reaction to your sense of pride and self-worth. Narcissists are deeply affected by your sense of pride. This includes your feelings of deep pleasure and satisfaction derived from your achievem

There is something that is more valuable to a narcissist than anything else—something they deem to be extremely valuable. And that is something more important to them than money. Contrary to what you might think, many narcissists are not overly concerned about money. Many of them already have money, and a lot of their actions aren't making them any richer. In fact, they may even be putting themselves in situations where they could be losing money. What has now become even mor

Narcissists are master manipulators. They may seem foolish or ill-advised, but they know exactly what they're doing. They are playing you, tricking and deceiving you, and hiding the truth. They put on a show to make you believe they are genuine, but in reality, they are not. Narcissists create a false character that mirrors your interests and ideals. This makes you think they are real, but they are not. You end up holding onto something that doesn't exist, which is exactly wh

Narcissistic parents can have a profound and often devastating impact on their children. The extent of this impact largely depends on the level of influence and control the narcissistic parent exerts over the child. Typically, the scapegoat child and the golden child are the most affected. The golden child is seen by the narcissistic parent as exceptional and is expected to be extraordinary in every way, never making mistakes and always being perfect. In contrast, the scapego

Narcissists have a way of inducing a state of consciousness in which you lose the power of voluntary action, making you highly responsive to their suggestions and directions. They may use this technique to recover suppressed memories or to modify your behavior. Essentially, they put you in a mental state akin to sleep, where your thoughts can be easily influenced. One of the techniques they use is called a pattern interrupt, a method also employed by NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Pro

Narcissists may act like they're in a relationship with you, but then they play and cheat on you. They engage with you only for enjoyment and recreation rather than a serious or practical purpose. Many of you don't understand why they do that because you assume it would be just as beneficial for them as it would be for you if they committed to a reciprocal relationship. That's why I decided to create this video to give you seven reasons why narcissists play you. 1. They Have

Narcissists often treat others badly, cruelly, and unfairly. Understanding why they behave this way can help you navigate and protect yourself from their toxic behavior. How a person treats you is not always a reflection of who you are; it’s a reflection of how they feel about themselves. This is especially true for narcissists, who are self-absorbed and lack empathy. They project their own feelings onto you, so their treatment of you is a representation of their internal sta

The most powerful weapon a narcissist has isn't actually anything of their own because they don't have any power. They get you to hand your power over to them, and that is how they control you. Their most powerful weapon is your mind because that's what makes them appear strong when really they're actually very weak. It's also the only weapon that they have. All they can do is use your mind against you by making you validate the false reality and the illusion. If you believe