In this post, I am going to give you 5 ways to torture a narcissist. If you do these things, it will make them suffer. Although I do not advise engaging in this type of behaviour. This video is for educational purposes only.
1. Act confident Act self-assured. Show confidence in your qualities and abilities. Show certainty about something. Be optimistic and hopeful. This will torture the narcissist. But I understand that it's not always easy to do when you're around them. Because they always target your self-esteem. They always make you doubt yourself and your decisions. Which is why you constantly need to do things that boost your self-esteem. You need to do things that make you feel good. Spend time with your family and friends. Spend time with positive people. Because the narcissist wants to isolate you. They want you to be alone. Do positive things. Do things that you are passionate about. Because that will boost your self-esteem. It will make you feel better about yourself. It will make you more confident. And that will make it more difficult for the narcissist to manipulate and control you. 2. Go flex Walk in a way that coneys confidence or even arrogance. Show them that you are proud and happy. Show them how attractive you can be. It will drive them insane. Because as I said in my first ever video, the narcissist doesn't want you to look good or feel good. They want you to feel bad about yourself. They want you to feel like you're unattractive. 3. Be evasive Don't commit to anything. Don't talk about anything long-term. Don't talk about marriage or children. Don't plan any trips with them. Answer their questions in a way that is not direct or clear. Avoid speaking openly or making revelations about yourself. And never tell them you love them. Because they're not serious about any of that anyway. It's just lovebombing and future faking. It's designed to secure you as their source of supply. But they have no intention of following any of that up with action.Don't feed into it. Because they're not in it for the long run. So be evasive. Don't commit to anything. It will drive them insane. Because they want you to be under their spell. 4. Point out their flaws and imperfections
Tell them about everything you think is wrong with them. But don't say it in mean or insulting way. Just make an observation. Say it as though you're trying to help them. Follow it up with a compliment. It will make them feel very insecure. It will eat away at them from the inside. But you don't even have to do that. You can just avoid giving them a compliment. Especially when you can see that they're desperately seeking your approval. It destroys their grandiosity. It destroys the illusions of their false self.
5. Go no contact
Once you're tired of playing games with the narcissist, go no contact. Because nothing will torture them more than that. Especially when they don't know that you're going to do it. It will trigger a narcissistic injury. It will make them very angry. Especially when they can see that you're putting yourself in a healthier place.
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