The Narcissist Will NEVER Do THIS

There are many things that narcissists will never do, but one of the main things you should never expect from them is loyalty. They will never give or show firm and constant support and allegiance to you, to the positive and productive aspects of society, to a religious, educational, or social purpose, or to an established law, practice, or custom. They are never going to do that.

Narcissists are never going to be loyal, honest, or trustworthy. They are never going to be able to love you or anyone else. They are never going to experience true joy or happiness because they have a void. They are very insecure, so they often feel empty, and nothing you or anyone else does will ever fill them.

They are never going to be satisfied. As soon as you figure them out, you will quickly discard them because you know that you cannot make them happy. They are never going to be happy with anyone, but you would rather that they be someone else's problem. All they are going to do is bring you down in an attempt to fill that void, which can never be filled. They are always going to want more and are never going to be happy because they are never going to be faithful or true to their word, promises, or vows.

Narcissists are never going to be deserving of your trust because they are never going to keep their promises. This is why they will only end up cheating on you. They will always be looking for something better or something more—the bigger, better deal, the next shiny new toy. They have an inflated ego, an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance, which distorts their ability to recognize truth in themselves and others, and causes them to have a strong sense of entitlement for things they haven't worked for or don't deserve.

Even though you may not think they are cheating, a lot of times they are. You are just unaware of it. You haven't caught on or recognized the signs because they are expert manipulators. They can make you believe that they are committed to you, and you will be none the wiser until one day you catch them out. You find out that they have been cheating on you.

When you first got involved with them, you felt like they were dedicated to you, and you were dedicated to them. It would have appeared that way to anyone outside of the relationship, as though you were connected and everything was great. But that was just love bombing. It was manipulation. They used it to fill the relationship with enthusiasm and excitement, to make you believe that it's who they really are and that everything is amazing. So, you wanted to stay with them and be with them. But then it trapped you and kept you stuck as you started to notice things they were hiding. They started to withdraw, became distant and reserved, began to hide their phone, and would disappear for hours at a time. When you tried to confront them, they didn't want to talk about it or would get angry as though you had no right to question them.

They are just trying to distract you. Maybe they already met up with someone else, and now they are gaslighting you or love bombing you again. They are acting nice all of a sudden, but there is something going on, and they don't want you to become suspicious because the truth is that they will never be loyal. They will never be faithful, even if you give them everything they need—money, a place to live, sex, or treating them well. They are still going to want more, and you are not going to be able to give that to them. They are not even going to want it from you after they have spent a certain amount of time around you. They are going to want it from someone else because it really isn't about what you are giving or not giving to them. They will still hurt you regardless of how well you are treating them, regardless of you being a good person.

They don't really care about your good qualities. They just see you as an appliance, an object that exists to meet their needs. They don't care about who you are as a person. That doesn't concern them, which is why you may not remember a time where you actually sat down and had an actual conversation with them. It was always something superficial. There was never a time where they tried to get to know who you actually are because they never cared about that. All they cared about is getting their needs met at your expense, whether it's emotional or financial.

This means that they are never going to be able to love you. They are never going to experience true joy or happiness because they are always looking for something to fill that void. They are not a complete person on their own, which is why they can never be alone. They will never be honest with themselves or with you. They will never be grateful, and it's because of their ego. They are addicted to whatever makes them feel good, whatever makes them feel important. They are enslaved to their impulses and can't control them. They are just going to keep doing the same things again and again, and it's never going to change until they accept who they are.

In the beginning, it will look like they actually cared about you when they were just addicted to the chase. They always want what they don't have, and once they've got it, they don't want it anymore. They have locked you down. They know you are not going anywhere, so then they start seeking new supply. They start looking for something else to fulfill them. They are bored of you now. They have learned you. They know what makes you tick. They know what you are about, so for them, it has lost that sense of mystery and excitement that it once had in the beginning. It's more fun for them to chase someone else, to try to attract and win another person.

The more time you spend around them, the more your value goes down. They don't value themselves, so why would they value you? They see it as though if you are willingly desiring to spend time around them, then you can't be that special. This is why it seems like they are always chasing people who are out of their reach or people who they believe they can't have because that's what feels special to them. But as soon as they know that they can have you, they won't want you anymore. They will instantly lose interest in you. They may keep you around if you are fulfilling their emotional and financial needs, but they are never going to see you in the way that they did before. They are never going to look at you like you are the prize because they know they have already got you. You are not going anywhere, so they begin to take you for granted.

They have their eye on someone else or may just be fantasizing about them, but either way, they are still cheating. They are still not being loyal because they believe that there is something better or greater than you. While they may not have physically cheated on you, a lot of times it may just be because they can't. They may have tried to cheat on you already but then got turned down. By staying with them, you are disrespecting yourself because they are never going to respect you after that. Whether you know it or not, they are always going to feel like they have the upper hand over you. They are going to feel like they are more powerful. They are never going to treat you as their equal because they have this void and these desires, and they know you are never going to be enough for them. They are never going to feel satisfied with you, and they know there is nothing you can do to change that.

They look at it like they are always the winner in the end because, in their minds, you fail to satisfy them, which always leaves them in a position of power. Because you are associated with them, you are connected to them, so they are always going to take you for granted. They are always going to look at it like if you were anything special, you wouldn't want anything to do with them because they already know that they mean you no well. They have been through this many times before. They know what they are like. They know they get cold feet. They lose confidence in the relationship. They lose desire and attraction towards the other person, so they know it's only a matter of time until they idealize someone else, which puts them in a position of power over you from the very beginning because you are unaware. You don't know that you genuinely believe that you could be enough for them when deep down they already know the truth.

A lot of times, that's what gives them this unrealistic and superficial self-esteem. It's just the fact that they know that no matter who you think you are or how much of an asset you think you are going to be to them, in the long run, you are going to fall short. You are not going to live up to their expectations, and they are going to feel pressured to give you credit, to patronize you, and to feed your ego to make you feel like you can be good enough for them when deep down they already know the truth. As soon as they have got you, they are going to want something else. But they don't see it as a character flaw. In their minds, that makes them powerful because they can just toss you aside whenever they want to, even if they are emotionally or financially tied to you. They don't care.

Many of you are deluding yourselves into thinking that you hold some level of significance to them. Yes, they may play along with it, and they may even trick themselves into thinking that they want you because they like how that makes them feel in that moment. But time reveals all, and just as they lost desire and attraction towards other people before you, the same thing is going to happen again. It will begin to affect your self-esteem. You will start to feel like something is wrong with you when this person just can't be satisfied. They are always going to want more, and it's because they know that you don't really want them. You don't really accept them. What they are looking for is someone who does accept them because they don't accept themselves. It's almost like they need permission from someone to be able to accept themselves, someone who won't judge them, someone who will let them be who they are.

But even then, they are just going to walk all over you. They are going to take you for granted, and they are going to have other sources on the side. You will never be the only one. You are never going to feel special. They are always going to overlook you unless they think they can get something out of you. In the end, all you are really going to have are these moments, and it was just a figment of your imagination, a shared fantasy. It was never real because everything they gave to you was not real. All they care about is the moment, and to get that, they have to sell you a dream that they can never live up to. As long as you think it's real, it will feel real for you, but it won't ever be something that's actually grounded in reality.

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