Narcissists Are Actually VERY WEAK [Part Two]

A lot of people think that narcissists are powerful and strong, as though they have a lot of energy. While it may appear that way at times, they are actually very weak. I will prove this to you in this video.

Narcissists are unable to withstand force, pressure, and wear. They lack moral and intellectual power, confidence, and determination. They are easily influenced and worried by other people. This is why, whenever you're around them, you feel like you have to protect them, as though you have to keep them safe from danger or harm. They seem like a threatened species because they are.

Narcissists were never meant to make it this far because they are not independent. They depend on their sources of supply, requiring and demanding limitless special treatment, admiration, validation, and support. This feeds their sense of entitlement and self-centeredness, which is why they deliberately create situations where they are the center of attention. They use a false character to manipulate people and bring them into their realm because they are really seeking support and assistance. They can't manage themselves successfully on their own.

Once you're involved with them, you will find that they are too much to bear. They are overwhelming and insupportable, like their own worst enemy. Everything has to be about them, and they need constant attention because they never developed the emotional faculties to sustain themselves. When the time comes for them to be brave and tough to deal with a difficult or unpleasant situation, it is too overwhelming for them. It is too much stress, too taxing mentally and physically.

Even if they have just a single task to deal with, they feel mentally drained. This is not the result of anything external; they lack the mental and emotional capacity to deal with things. They end up being burnt out and experience mental collapse caused by stress, which they then take out on the person closest to them. They can't carry the weight on their own and don't want to deal with themselves. They want to pass themselves off to you and let you deal with it.

While they hold you to unrealistic expectations, what you demand from them is relatively small in comparison, yet they just can't do it. They don't have the means. It's like trying to tow something heavy with a small car; it will tax the engine and cause too much stress. Narcissists can't even handle a simple task on their own. They can't regulate their own emotions, which makes them very dangerous people to be around.

People who are emotionally strong are safe to be around, but weak people who act nice and as though they can handle things are actually the most dangerous. At some point, they are going to explode, and you will be left to deal with the consequences of their actions. They can only pretend to be nice; they are not very pleasant or agreeable at all. There are many unresolved issues beneath the surface due to a lack of self-reflection and self-awareness. They don't even know who they are because they are too busy using external sources to regulate their emotions.

When you are around them, you feel like you always have to sugarcoat things to protect them and make them feel safe. You end up walking on eggshells, extremely cautious about your words and actions because any little thing could set them off. You hold yourself to impossible expectations in the hopes that it will make them feel more comfortable. You have to be perfect, in two places at once, two steps ahead of them, and always present. But at some point, you learn that this is what they want. They need you to be with them at all times, to check in with them, and to tell them your plans.

Narcissists see you as an extension of themselves, so they need to have full control over you. They need to feel like they can pull the reins when they need to. This is why they will devalue you, try to keep you down, and even discard you if it gets too much for them. This all stems from their weakness and fragility. Even after they discard you, they will try to find someone else to support them until they realize that person is imperfect too. Then they will try to come back to you until they assume that it's all over for you and you can't handle them either.

They will begin a campaign based on lies and falsehoods about how you mistreated them or how you weren't good enough, even though you may have given them your entire life. They will build destructive networks behind your back because they are seeking protection, support, and assistance. They lack moral and intellectual power, confidence, and determination. They are easily influenced and worried by other people. It doesn't take much for them to see you as a threat because they are very weak and fragile.

Narcissists hold a stance of being moral and righteous people, but in fact, they will cheat, lie, and steal. They will deceive you, future fake, deny, project, blame shift, and gaslight. They will keep a code of silence, expecting you to act like nothing is wrong and see them as perfect. All of these behaviors stem from weakness, which is why only low-value people conduct these behaviors. High-value people don't need to do that because they can advance by being honest, righteous, and moral. Weak, low-value people cannot do that; they have to cheat, lie, and steal because they lack the power to perform. They lack the mental and emotional capacity to achieve anything on their own.

Even if you work your fingers to the bone on their behalf, it still isn't good enough for them. They are easily threatened and intimidated, feeling inferior to you. They will start to hate you and decide to tear you down because they need to domesticate you and keep you in a box where they can control you. But it's not really you they are trying to control; they are trying to break their emotions through you because they view you as an extension of themselves. They don't see you as a separate person, which is why they have to isolate you. Your independence would otherwise reveal to them that you are a separate person, which would destroy their false reality.

Narcissists are emotionally bankrupt and void. They have no place from which to draw love, kindness, or empathy because they are broken, damaged people. This is why they lack value, usefulness, and normal function. If you pay attention, you will notice that even their communication appears robotic, stiff, and unemotional, like a machine programmed by a computer. Their communication seems rehearsed, as though it's nothing more than a public performance, stating a list of points made many times before. They have broken and imbalanced perspectives, experiences that inflicted damage on their psyches, lacking steadiness and soundness in judgment.

In their childhood, they were taught that it's okay to be weak, to lack the force of character to hold their own decisions, beliefs, or principles. They were taught that it's okay to lack enthusiasm and energy because someone else will take care of it for them. They have always been surrounded by enablers who protected their distorted reality, resulting in them lacking character, discipline, and willpower. They have to cheat, lie, and steal to survive, building networks that support their narrative because they were never meant to be alive. They were never meant to make it this far, and deep down, they know it.

Narcissists feed off other people because they can't generate anything life-sustaining from within. They can't sustain themselves, nor can they sustain you. All they can do is drain you of your life and energy because they are weak. When you are around a strong and powerful person, you will feel strong and powerful. When you are around someone who feels weak and fragile, you will feel the same way unless your strength and confidence are great enough to pull them into your reality. But with narcissists, that's very difficult to do. No matter how strong and confident you may feel, it's just a matter of time until they pull you down because they are extremely negative and pessimistic.

Deep down, narcissists know they were never meant to make it this far in life. They know they are doomed, and when you are constantly around that type of energy, it will suffocate you and make you feel trapped or oppressed. They gave up on themselves a long time ago, so instead of trying to manage themselves and become better people, they choose to manage other people. They were never meant to have any source of power to begin with. They are not doing anything productive, not leading people anywhere good, not inspiring people. They are just bringing everyone down with them because that's all they can do. They can't uplift people because they have no fight left in them. They gave up a long time ago, which is why they are so weak.

Our power is meant to come from within, not from controlling other people. That's just an illusion of power, something taken from another person and claimed as their own. It's not something they are generating from within, which is why they have to isolate you and try to keep you to themselves. They know that without you, they would have gone insane by now. They can't survive without supply because they have no higher purpose or calling. There's no incentive for them to do what is right because they abandoned themselves a long time ago. They know they are doomed, which is why they have to build networks of flying monkeys and have constant sources of supply. It's the only way they can feel alive.

Narcissists lack passion and purpose. There's nothing keeping them together, which is why they fall apart when you are around them. What you have is what they are missing, something they can't generate from within, but also something they can't receive or experience. Yet, they still desire to be a part of it. This is why you have to be their parent, guiding and directing them, but at the same time, they have to control you. Whenever you are around them, you feel like you have to be them, dealing with a child who wants to be the parent. They want to manage and control you, which is why they don't like it when you question or confront them unless they can use it to get supply.

Narcissists don't like it when you look for answers because they know they have something to hide. They cannot react logically or give you a reasonable explanation for their behavior because it would expose them. Everything has to be about your feelings or emotions. They have to intimidate you or become passive-aggressive, pulling you down with them to sustain the illusion. A rational argument would destroy it, so they have no choice but to remain emotional around you. They are heavily dependent on you but also seeking independence from you. They are trying to detach but can't because they never fully attached to you. They developed a mental image of you when they first met you and hold on to it for dear life because they need it.

Narcissists have a void and need you to fill it so they can feel whole and complete, even if just for a moment. They want to feel like they have a higher mission or purpose, but that doesn't mean you can be their friend. They deeply hate and envy you. They secretly admire and respect your independence but want to destroy it because they want to prove to themselves that they are strong and powerful, even though that may never be the case. They gave up on reality a long time ago, so they settle for a false reality where they are the prize. You will never be able to connect with them or get through to them. They will never understand your perspective because they lack empathy and are more concerned with their own interests and needs.

Narcissists may recognize that you are a healthy and productive person, so they will use closure and validation to manipulate you and lead you astray until they are ready to destroy you. They are weak. Strength is the willingness to accept other people's ideas and perspectives, to accept that other people have a different way of living, which is something narcissists cannot do. Everything has to be about them, yet they have a fragile sense of self and live in a false reality. Anything else is a threat to them, which they have to monitor and control. They know their character and reality are not real because it doesn't produce anything good. If it did, the signs would be there, and it would produce success over time, but it doesn't because what they are doing is not right.

Narcissists continue to repeat the same things again and again because they have lost their minds. Creating a false reality is an extreme action taken out of desperation. Desperate people do desperate things. As Albert Einstein once said, "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." Narcissists are stuck in their minds, on a loop, because they are weak. Only those who possess great strength and willpower can break the pattern, but they lack discipline and control. Even if they could do that, it would only last for a short period and be used to manipulate you. They are nothing like us, and deep down, they know it, which is why they do what they do.

For these reasons, you will never be able to connect with them. It takes strength and courage to face things head-on, and that's something they can't do. They are too full of shame and defeat. They know there's no hope for them, which is why you will never be able to love them, and they will never be able to love you. They see love and vulnerability as weaknesses. They can't be vulnerable because they see it as making them stupid or foolish, exposing them to danger or harm. This reveals who they are because they are constantly seeking intelligence, trying to understand things they don't understand, and protecting their fragile sense of self by not letting themselves love or show empathy to those less fortunate.

Narcissists become very paranoid and hyper-vigilant, believing people are out to get them because they know they have done people dirty. This is why they build networks and constantly look for new supply, wondering when it will catch up to them and their ride will come to an end. They know that what goes up must come down, and they will eventually experience a fall from grace. They need something to fall back on because they know they were never doing the right thing. Nothing good stems from weakness unless you are around someone strong, which is why they are constantly in survival mode, making you their parent or caretaker while they act like an unruly child.

Narcissists act out to show courage and strength, but it never lasts because they want to take your power from you. They treat you as a child and try to control you, even though it doesn't make sense. They demand and expect you to take on a parental role, giving them direction, imposing rules, and using discipline, but they don't want you to have any power or responsibility. They don't want you to respond to the best of your ability because they don't want to change. They want to stay weak because they are comfortable with the way things are. Maybe at one point in their lives, they wanted to be strong, but they gave up a long time ago. They have no fight in them now.

Narcissists have the chained elephant syndrome, remaining tied to bad past experiences due to childhood trauma. They don't try again because they hold on to negative experiences, which holds them back from the real possibilities of the present that could transform their lives. This makes them very dangerous because, although they may have given up on themselves and doing anything with their own lives, they will sacrifice people for the sake of gaining more power. But it actually results in them having less power because it's self-serving, leading to disempowerment. The power they take is also the power to give away, and they are not using it for a meaningful purpose, so it doesn't last or result in anything good.

Narcissists are weak, and that makes them very dangerous people to be around. Strong people are not weak because they don't give up; they keep fighting for what is right. They spread love instead of hate and animosity. Weak people are quick to throw in the towel. If you do one thing wrong, they will devalue you and turn against you because they have a black-and-white mentality. You need to stand for yourself by realizing that you can be better. Although you may be down right now, it's only because you are around the wrong people. You are surrounded by people whose only intent is to bring you down. If you were in the right environment, you would be able to grow and develop.

We differ from narcissists because they believe things cannot change or be better. They may have told you that you will never be anything or good for anyone after they are gone, and that may be true for them. Maybe they can't change or be better, but it doesn't have to be true for you. They don't believe in you because they don't believe in themselves, which is why they remain stuck and stay weak. But you can find strength in knowing that we are not the same as narcissists. We can change, grow, and become the best versions of ourselves. They won't like it because it reminds them that we are different, strong, and they are weak.

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