Why Narcissists NEVER Stop Talking

Narcissists are constantly engaged in speech. They are rarely silently expressive unless they have no other choice. They are always expressing their ideas and feelings, and there is always something they have to say. Are they completely under the control of their disorder? Yes, they will always be narcissists, they will always do narcissistic things, and the illusion will always be there.

They may try to distract you from it, they may try to get you to focus on something else to make you believe something that is not true, but it's only a short-term distraction because the truth is that they are narcissists. So, you will witness their narcissistic behavior over time because they still have to satisfy their needs. They will always be talking because talking is their currency, so they will never stop talking.

Narcissists talk to pressure, persuade, and intimidate you. They force and threaten you to make you believe whatever they want you to believe to establish their authority over you. They are trying to brainwash you, pressurizing you into adopting radically different beliefs by using systematic and often forcible means. They repeatedly tell you that it is true and prevent any other information from reaching you, which is why they will often try to remove other people from your environment. They will try to isolate you so that they can be your only source of influence, the only person who has the capacity to affect your character, development, and behavior.

They don't want you to value your alone time; they want you to see it as a bad thing. They will shame you for it and make you feel guilty because it's a threat to their power and control over you. They need you to need them, to want them to be around. They are very jealous of anything that you're engaged in that is outside of their control, whether it's a book, movie, music, or even just your own self-reflection. These are things that aren't relevant to them, but they will try to bring it back and make it about them so that they can still have control over you. If they can't control it, they will expect you to cut it off completely because they want to instill their set of beliefs, their system of ideas and ideals. They don't want you to think for yourself.

Narcissists will always be talking, and they will repeat the same things again and again for emphasis and clarity so that it leaves an impact, so that it imprints on your mind. This is why you will find that you have the same arguments again and again, the same things will keep coming up. They are constantly telling you the same things, just presenting it in a different way because they want to lock you into their world so that they can talk about themselves and condition you until it becomes intolerable.

Their talking serves a purpose. It's intended to condition you so that you can exist in their world and the illusion. Their talking helps them to find those who are already susceptible and vulnerable, people who are already liable and inclined to accept a certain attitude, action, or condition. Maybe they had a narcissistic parent, so they will believe it, they will accept it, it will sit in their minds, and then they will become familiar with the narcissist. They will feel more comfortable with them, they will begin to adopt the illusion and the fantasy because they were raised in it. They've already experienced abuse, so it feels normal and even more comfortable to them. They feel safe being beaten down.

Narcissists are experts at finding people like that. Narcissists never stop talking, and their talking serves a purpose. But now that you're aware of it, it should help you to become more suspicious about it. Everything they're pushing always sounds so great and impressive, where it should be difficult for you to believe because they want you to think that the most amazing thing would be for you to be with them in a relationship or to have them as a friend. They entice you, they lure you into it until you begin to feel comfortable, and then they have to find a way to keep you there. But it's all made possible and made smoother by their talk.

They talk about things, but they never actually go out and do it. They will promise you the world, they will promise to give you things that they can't possibly give you. They will sell you a dream, they will say that they will do much greater things than they will ever be able to achieve. They will talk the talk, but they won't walk the walk. They won't act in a way that agrees with the things they say. They won't put their words into action; they will just make empty promises in the hopes that you will believe it, but they'll never go out and actually do it because they're unable to or because they don't have the ability to do it. So, all they're going to do is talk.

By the time they're finished, you're going to feel like you've taken a drug. You'll feel intoxicated, you won't feel good, you'll feel like you've lost some control of your actions and behavior. You just end up feeling bad about yourself, and then you'll be left to deal with those feelings on your own. They're not going to be there to comfort or support you. They don't even have the means to support themselves, which is why they need you to listen to them talk hour after hour so that you will hand your power over to them, and then they can feel better about themselves. But you're always the one who is left feeling drained because you're the one with the power, you're the one who is generating this energy from within. So, you'll only ever feel drained and lifeless after dealing with them because they have nothing to bring to the table. They have little energy of their own, and the energy they do have is dark. It pulls you down, it suffocates your light, it leaves you feeling like something worthless and unpleasant, which is something that you end up identifying with, even though it has nothing to do with you. It's something they gave to you because that's all they had to give.

They have no power or energy of their own, so that's all they can make you feel. They might give you the illusion of something good in the beginning, but they are just reflecting your own ideas and dreams back to you. They're feeding off your energy while giving a little bit back to you to make you feel like you have something, but that was already yours anyway. They just took it from you and then gave it back to you because that's all they can do. They can't generate anything on their own. They have nothing special or unique to share with you. They have no light, they have nothing that's going to stimulate or excite you, nothing that's going to make you feel alive, nothing that's going to make you feel how they feel when they're around you. So, by default, all they can do is drain you until you become just like them. You become like a zombie, you become drained and lifeless to where you have nothing to give to anyone, at least until you take some time to recharge and generate that energy from within. But even then, they're just going to steal it from you all over again because it's something that they're deficient in, and that's what they need you for. That's why they can't leave you alone for too long.

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