When Narcissists Torment The WRONG PERSON

Dealing with a narcissist can consume a significant amount of your time and energy. They thrive on your reactions, feeding off the attention you give them. By engaging with their toxic behavior, you inadvertently become their audience, validating their actions.

Narcissists know they will receive more attention by being toxic and negative rather than positive. This is why they cause disturbances and problems, aiming to create as much damage as possible. They gossip about you, make false and damaging statements, and provoke trouble because they know there are many miserable people in the world who will eagerly react.

This is how narcissists start smear campaigns and enlist "flying monkeys" to do their bidding. While you are minding your own business and trying to stay positive, they manipulate others to target you, spread gossip, and express criticism. These enablers are often toxic and negative themselves, willing to participate in the narcissist's schemes.

A normal, healthy person wouldn't engage in such behavior. Narcissists, however, broadcast false information and orchestrate situations to make you look bad. They lack the courage to face opposition directly, so they create scenarios where they are not at risk. They know they are weak and wouldn't be able to handle direct confrontation.

Narcissists torment others because they are cowards. They avoid danger by creating situations where you can't immediately retaliate. If there were a threat of harm to themselves, they would quickly back off and change their behavior. They boast and act overconfidently because they believe they are safe and protected.

Don't let narcissists bring you down or make you feel bad about yourself. They are not worthy of your respect. Regard them with contempt, as they are bottom feeders who thrive on causing others to suffer. Stay strong and remember that their behavior is a reflection of their own weaknesses, not yours.