THIS IS WHY Narcissists Are So CRAZY

Narcissists are mad. They engage in wild and aggressive behaviour. They're not sensible or logical; they're unpredictable and non-conforming. They don't seem to care about anything. Clearly, there could only be one logical explanation for that: at some point in their childhood, they did care about something, but they were told that it was wrong or it didn't have a favourable result. Maybe they were abused or neglected. From that point on, they learned that there's no use in caring about anything. There's no incentive for them to do good. Love is a weakness. Love is for fools because they tried that already, and it never got them what they wanted. So now, they are more motivated to engage in things that are bad and wrong, whatever gets them ahead, whatever gives them the upper hand. They've learned that doing the right thing doesn't work. If it had worked for them in the past, they would have continued on that path.

At some point, we have to look at their parents, their upbringing, and their environment. We could even blame society as a whole because if someone is on the right path in life and they're doing the right thing, then yes, they are deserving. They do deserve love and happiness. They do deserve good things in their life. But then we also have to consider the fact that many of us had a rough childhood. Many of us experienced abuse and neglect, and yet we didn't become narcissists. We continue to take other people's feelings and needs into consideration, and many of us even became empaths. This proves that the abuse they experienced decades ago is not an excuse for their behaviour because they made a conscious choice. Scientists have found that babies aged between 19 and 21 months already know the difference between right and wrong. They understand fairness and can apply it in different situations. So they already knew exactly what they were doing. Narcissistic personality disorder doesn't develop until around age 18. Their parents may have been neglectful or demanded perfection, but the narcissist still made a choice. Just as many of us who had a similar upbringing chose to remain compassionate towards other people.

It's difficult to believe that throughout their entire childhood, they couldn't find any success in treating people right. But they made a conscious choice to seek power and control and to not care about anyone or anything but themselves. It's likely that they felt as though they had nothing to lose. They weren't afraid of how it would affect their image, reputation, or the person they would become and what they might otherwise lose in the process because they had nothing to lose. What stops us from engaging in destructive behaviours and activities is being aware of everything that we could lose because we have values and morals. We believe in God, so we understand that we're meant to live in a certain way and that if we go against that, we would lose favour or a possession of power and honour. It would affect us not only in this life but the next. But narcissists do not have this fear. They're not afraid to act out or abuse people because they have nothing to lose. Despite this character that they're displaying to you, they clearly don't believe. If they believed that there were consequences for their actions, they wouldn't act out in that way. So they really don't believe. They are lying.

They may have friendships or relationships, and most people would fear losing that through unfriendliness or opposition. They would fear losing relationships that are based on shared feelings, interests, or experiences. But narcissists don't fear losing that. They have nothing to lose because all of their relationships are unstable. They've probably never seen a stable relationship before, so they just view you as something temporary. They can engage in extreme behaviour because they have nothing to lose. They treat you as an extension of themselves and project everything they hate about themselves onto you. So it's very easy for them to act out because they don't even value themselves. If they did, they would pay attention to the things they don't like about themselves and then try to improve. They act mean, aggressive, and hostile because they have nothing to lose. They've never seen a stable relationship in their lives, and they've never felt loved or valued by anyone. So they're not concerned about their reputation because they assume that even if they act out, no one is going to care or notice because no one valued them to begin with. They never even value themselves enough to refrain from engaging in that type of behavior because they have no identity. So they're not worried about their reputation, which is why they're ready to leave and find a new identity and reputation somewhere else. They have no sense of loyalty. They have an inability to understand, recognize, or value commitment and dedication because it never served them in the past, and they've never seen it benefit anyone else. This is how they can change their entire life because they have nothing to lose. They don't value their reputation with you because they can shape-shift and start a new reputation somewhere else. This is what separates us from them. It's how they can be unfriendly and oppositional while we choose to refrain from engaging in that type of behaviour because we have a lot to lose, not only in this life but in the next life as well. Our reputation is very important to us, which is why we do our best to maintain it. We don't want to lose it.

This is why we must avoid narcissists. If you haven't experienced it yet, being involved with a narcissist will not only affect the reputation that other people have of you, but it will also affect the reputation that you have of yourself. It will begin to affect your credibility. This is why you have to separate yourself from them and go no contact. Otherwise, they will get you caught up in things that you may never have thought you would have been a part of. They will bring you down with them because they have nothing to lose. They have everything to gain from you. But again, it's not because they value you as a person. You're just a means to an end. They come around you only to take or destroy you because they see you as something useful and advantageous. But that's clearly not how you see them. That's why you're watching my videos because you've identified a problem. You see that their behaviour is dysfunctional. You're giving out, but you're getting nothing back in return. The only reason you may have stuck around this long is because you fell for their lies and future faking, or maybe because you felt bad for them. But at some point, you need to take a step back to see how this is affecting you. While they may have had nothing to lose, you have a lot to lose. If you've been around them this long, you've probably already lost a lot. It is time for you to stop losing because you are never going to win with a narcissist. You are never going to be good enough for them. You can be more than enough for someone else, just not for them. Even if there was a perfect person walking the Earth, they would still find a way to destroy them. It's because they're envious and jealous, and they have nothing to lose. This is why they're never going to take accountability for anything they do. We take accountability because we believe that we can improve and be a better person. We have a lot to lose, so we have a lot to give. But they don't take accountability because they already know that they can't improve or be better for you. If they could do that, they would have done it a long time ago. That's what any narcissist would do to trap and enslave their supply, which is all they're really trying to do. They don't do that because they can't. As I said, they have nothing to lose and everything to gain from you. This is why they rely so heavily on manipulation and deception because that's all they have to give. In actuality, that is nothing of value because it only results in you losing more in the end. They manipulate you only so that they can take something from you. Sometimes they don't even do that because they know it's just not going to cut it. It's not going to be good enough. Sometimes you won't even get the illusion from the narcissist. All you will get is abuse. Sometimes they will even discard you before you catch on to the fact that you were being fooled. When a narcissist senses that you're not going to fall for their games, they will drop you like a hot potato. The game only continues if they think you're susceptible. If that doesn't work, they will find something else because they don't want to take responsibility for the consequences of their actions. It's too painful and unpleasant for them. Instead, they will get upset and blame you for their own wrongdoing.