This Is Why Narcissists Are ALWAYS So ANGRY!!!

Narcissists are never happy; they are always in a bad mood. Yet, sometimes they will make an effort to pretend like they're having a good time, especially once they've discarded you and are triangulating you with a new supply. They already know they have a problem and that you can see it. They know you know they can never be happy.

So, they create this façade where they've moved on with their new source and are so much happier without you. The reality is that they're still mad. They're mad because they're envious and jealous of you. They can't stand you because they believe you're a far better person than they are. To be honest, what they believe is true because you're an authentic person, while they are not even complete humans. They're fake and fraudulent. All they can do is manipulate and deceive. They gaslight you because they don't want you to think of yourself in correct, well-grounded, and reasonable terms.

This is why they resort to gaslighting, where they manipulate you using psychological methods. They make you question your own memory, perception, sanity, and powers of reasoning to make you think you're losing your grasp on reality. In fact, they just can't tolerate the true reality. They don't want anything to do with it. Anytime you entertain it, it triggers them to reflect on how worthless they feel in comparison to you. So, they have to try to gaslight you out of reality by minimizing and representing you as less than your true value and importance through invalidation and inducing feelings of confusion within you.

They create an environment that lacks order because they want you to be unable to think clearly. You're in a daze or in a fog, and everything is chaotic, muddled, unclear, and untidy. You feel like you can't make sense of anything because they're making you feel confused about what is logical and reasonable. This isn't just a strategy they use to manipulate you; it's more than a set of tactics or a maneuver. It's actually a way of life for them because they have been gaslighting themselves their entire lives. Their entire life is a lie. They're dishonest about who they are.

Rather than showing up as themselves, they choose to create an alternate reality with a false self because they believe their true self is not good enough and that they could never be anything significant in the true reality. So, they created a false reality where they continuously imply that they are the ones who should be in charge. Then, they have to get you to believe in their lies and fabrications. The reality is that their life is built on a lie, and they want to bring you into their false and misleading way of living because that is the only way they can feel comfortable around you.

They construct a false character for themselves, which is omnipotent, wealthy, successful, desirable, attractive, or whatever else they deem to be a source of power for themselves. Meanwhile, they strip you of everything that you are and construct another false character, which is ineffective and inadequate, and then assign it to you. This is their world of make-believe, where they find pleasure in believing things that are not true because it provides them with a source of comfort and stability. It makes them feel like they're something when the true reality is that they are not. They're just pretending that things are better, different, or more exciting than they really are instead of facing up to reality because reality is too painful for them to accept.

They don't want to live in a world where they are nothing and nobody, and you're the king or the queen or a celebrity, even though that may be the true reality. It's just something they don't want to accept. So, they lie to themselves. They've been lying to themselves their entire life, and you may have discovered that they've also been lying to you. They've led you to believe that you are less than who you actually are because they're envious and jealous. They can't stand the fact that they are nothing in comparison to you and will never be on your level. This is why they have to resort to manipulation, lies, and gaslighting. They have to create their own little world of make-believe where they are somebody special, and you're meant to admire or envy them for whatever reason when, in fact, the opposite is true.

That is why they go out of their way to try to prove this to you because they're actually very insecure, especially when they're around you. They already know that you're greater than them in every way, but if they can manage to trick you into thinking otherwise, it validates their illusion. In that moment, they experience a state of euphoria and bliss as they share the very fantasy and delusion that they have induced in you. This is where they want to trap you. They don't ever want you to awaken from the spell. They want to continue to manage your perceptions of them so that they can continue to get supply, even though it's all fake. It's all a lie. They're not who they say they are.

They've been gaslighting themselves their entire lives, and they've been gaslighting you because you are so much greater than what they've led you to believe. They don't want you to know that, which is why they seem to become skilled manipulators, illusionists, and even magicians. They cast all sorts of Jedi mind tricks and spells in an attempt to prevent you from awakening to the truth so that they can keep you locked in this alternate reality where you can't be you and you're just whoever they wish they could be.

It's like Cinderella. You may be very kind or very beautiful, but you will be verbally abused and gaslighted by the narcissist into thinking that you're so much less than who you actually are because they're envious and jealous of you. In a lot of ways, they may wish they were you, which is why you may find that they mimic a lot of the things you like or do. They try to be just like you while denying you the space to be yourself because they don't want you to be you. They want to be you. They want to dominate and control anything that you are interested in. They will act like they're into that now just because it makes you look good or because it's something unique that you enjoy. Now they've got to claim ownership over that and try to bring it into their realm because they recognize it as a source of power and authenticity for you. They can't stand you having anything or being anything because they're so mad and envious of you. They just want you to have nothing and be nothing. They want anything and everything that is meant to be connected to or related to you because they literally want to be you.

They see you as being superior to themselves, so they have to bring you down and try to distort everything because the truth and reality put them at a great disadvantage. So, they gaslight themselves and they gaslight you. They make you believe that their needs are more important than yours. They put themselves in a competitive and superior position over you and make you believe that it's your job to cater to their demands as though what they feel is more important than what you feel. They see their feelings as facts, so whatever they feel becomes the truth. They lie to themselves by telling themselves that it's reasonable for them to control you, but they don't want you to control them because you're not as wise or as aware as they think they are. In their minds, their judgments, decisions, and conclusions are unquestionably accurate, so you can't tell them anything because they expect you to meet their expectations, not the other way around.

They see it as a waste of time to even consider your feelings, interpretations, or beliefs because all they want is your blind loyalty. They want your unquestioning commitment to them without criticizing their beliefs, actions, and the consequences associated with that allegiance. They expect you to follow and support them regardless of any negative and harmful aspects. Then, they try to convince you that you should not trust yourself to get you to go along with their way of thinking and behaving. By doing that, they're gaslighting you and gaslighting themselves because they just don't like reality. It doesn't serve them because it doesn't give them what they want at the moment, and that's all they really care about. They don't care about what happens afterward, which is how they will always end up reframing what you think and feel to try to get you to think that you're the problem.

They're like children in adult bodies. They can't deal with any accountability. They get angry when things don't go their way, but their anger is often used to distract attention from something more important, which is the fact that they're very insecure. That is why they can't deal with the thought of your free thinking or independent decision-making. Just the thought of that might make them fly into a rage because they don't want you to have your own feelings and preferences. They don't want you to be who you actually are because it makes them feel inferior in comparison. It makes them feel so small and insignificant, which is why they will often unload their unrequested opinions and commentary onto you to try to establish some level of significance and relevance. This is really just brainwashing, where they're pressuring you into adopting radically different beliefs by using systematic and forceful means because they just want to keep you looking to them for the answers.

This is why they will often mock and ridicule you because they don't want you to think and decide for yourself. They will minimize your other sources of influence, whether it's your friends, family, or anyone else. They will say it's because they just don't know or they don't understand, or they will say that they told them something and they don't think the way you think they do to try to undermine your idea or understanding of people supporting you. They want you to feel like you're on your own. They don't want you to feel like you have any support because they want to be the ones to tell you who you are and what you feel, as well as your interpretations and preferences. None of it really makes any logical sense because it's all built upon them gaslighting themselves. It has no basis in reality, but they don't care about reality. They just want to minimize you and exaggerate anything that they think is good about themselves so that they can pull you into the alternate reality because they're terrified of the truth. They're terrified of people who they perceive to be different from themselves. That is why they don't want to fit in with your wishes or needs or try to cooperate with you because then that would mean that they would have to be vulnerable, and that's something they're not able to do because they're just too afraid and very insecure. Instead of accepting that, they'd rather blame your interpretations.

There's really no point in trying to bring the truth to a narcissist because it's only going to make them mad. They're quite clearly deeply invested in their lies and fabrications, so it's highly unlikely that you will ever be able to pull them out of that. Instead, just remind yourself of what you know to be true. If you made it to my videos, you're clearly grounded in reality. Just remind yourself of what you know about the people around you and their situations or their state of affairs, and trust your own ability to judge people and things well. There's no need to argue with them or try to prove your point. When you're secure in your own beliefs, you won't feel any need to do that. Instead, you can let them continue on their own in the alternate reality.

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