This Is The Narcissist's TRUE MOTIVATION

Their true motivation is envy. It is their driving force, the energy behind what they do. It is the main factor that causes things to happen. However, they're also very delusional, so they think you're envious of them because their envy of you causes them to feel threatened. It causes them to become very paranoid and hyper-vigilant, where they start to believe that you're out to get them. This is why thieves always think other people are stealing, or liars always think other people are lying, because that's exactly what they're doing.

They think that if they can do it, then you can do it too, even if you've never done it before. They are seeking vulnerable people who they can exploit—people who are exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, people who they can make full use of and derive benefit from. Because then they can manipulate and gaslight you. They can sow seeds of doubt in your mind to make you question your own memory, perception, and sanity so that they can get what they want from you.

But they're also attracted to your strength because they need someone who is strong, someone who is able to withstand force and pressure, someone who is powerful and successful. This is what they become envious of because then they desire to take something from you. They're willing to go all out; they will pull all the stops because they decide to win at all costs. They see you as being superior to them, and in the beginning, they may admire and respect that because they see it as something that could be beneficial to them. But then they start to realize that they're not you, and that who you are and the things you have will never be theirs, which is why they become envious. Then they desire to forcefully take whatever you have that drew them to you.

Narcissists are bottom feeders. They're people of the lowest status, regardless of what position they hold or how much they have, because they're opportunists who seek quick profit at the expense of other people or from their misfortune. They will do whatever it takes to get it. They will cheat, they will steal, they will commit deliberate acts of destruction and disruption, they will sabotage goals and dreams because they're very envious people. This is why they will exaggerate their own abilities and importance while minimizing yours. They will represent you as less than your true value and importance. They will act like your accomplishments aren't a big deal. They will treat you with contempt, as though you're worthless and beneath their consideration, as though they could do what you do.

But they're all talk. They'll never go out and actually do it. Envy is their true motive. It is their driving force, and they waste their entire lives being envious of other people. Every choice or decision they make is fueled by their envy, which is why they can't be kind or friendly to you. They can't just go out and earn it; they can't just politely ask for it. They have to take it. They have to manipulate you. They have to try to destroy you because they see you as being superior. They see you as being above them, and they can't deal with it, so they have to bring you down to their level. They have to level the playing field.

They may desire to be around you and to have the things that you have in the beginning, but after a certain amount of time, they will begin to think that they are better than you. They will devalue you until you're nothing in their mind. So now they're better than you. They've destroyed you. They're more important than you are now because they brought you down and they got rid of you. This is how they spend their lives. It affects most of their choices and decisions. If they want something, they have to take it from you because they don't want you to have it. But they don't just want to take it; they want to destroy you in the process as well because they are deeply envious of you.

You need to be very cautious because they are very greedy. They have an intense and selfish desire for wealth and power, and they're willing to do whatever it takes to get it. They will step on you to get ahead. Many of you may want to make friends and attract people to you, and a lot of this is done online. It's not face-to-face anymore. So you upload pictures and videos to your social media profile. People can see you on vacation, they can see that you got a new car, they can see that you're having a good time and you're attracting people. But what you may not know is that you're actually attracting narcissists. You're attracting predators—people who habitually prey on other people, who will ruthlessly exploit you.

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