This Is THE LAST THING The Narcissist Wants To See

Narcissists are typically very observant. They constantly scan their environment for threats, quickly noticing any changes. They pay careful attention to what you do and how you feel. By this point, it should be pretty obvious: the last thing the narcissist wants to see is your happiness. They don't want to witness your well-being and contentment unless it's something they can take credit for. Otherwise, it brings them irritation and annoyance, causing them mental suffering and distress.

Narcissists are emotional predators. They manipulate and exploit people's emotions for their own benefit. They've been doing it for so long that it's almost like they have a sixth sense. They're intuitive about your mood and energy shifts. They know if you're still as unhappy and distressed as they are because narcissists are low in energy. They're like empty buckets with a void that can never be filled. They're insatiable, always unhappy and dissatisfied, always wanting what you have.

When you experience a shift in energy, they immediately sense it. They come around to drain you of your energy, resources, and positivity. They also feed off your misery because it gives them satisfaction. Seeing you unhappy or longing for them strokes their ego and momentarily increases their sense of self-worth. They instinctively know how you're feeling without even needing to be in your presence. They can hear it in your voice or see it in your eyes because they're able to perceive things that are not discernible to a normal person's perceptions.

Narcissists are very miserable people, heavily dependent on other people's reactions. They feed off your pain to aid their survival. Tests have shown that narcissists can even read a person's feelings by looking into their eyes. They can figure out your emotional state without being negatively affected by it. In fact, it brings them pleasure and makes them feel good about themselves. They don't even have to look into your eyes; they can sense it in your energy.

When you start to regain your confidence and things start to make more sense to you about what they're about and who they are, you begin to heal those emotional wounds. As you understand and learn more about them, it detaches the connections and associations you've made with them. They can feel it and sense it even when you're not around. They view you as an extension of themselves, so however you feel affects their emotional state.

When they know you're happy without them, they experience sadness and distress. It hurts them because you're no longer attached to their misery or negative energy. You're pulling away from the negativity and pain, starting to feel better, and your anxiety is going away. They can sense when you're no longer thinking about them. If you're a true empath, they can see it on your face and read your emotions very easily.

Narcissists prefer to be around things that are dysfunctional, things that deviate from the norms of social behaviour. They like being around people who are unfortunate and unhappy, people who are not satisfied or pleased with their situation. They contaminate everything they come into contact with, making it impure. They know when you have healed, which is why they come back to rob you of your qualities and virtues, everything that makes you who you are, everything that gives you your light and energy.

Nothing hurts them more than seeing you happy and contented with yourself. They don't like being around anyone who is unshakable or unmoved. They can't survive around someone like that, which is why they always end up destroying them. The objective is to break you of your happiness, contentment, peace, and well-being. They never give you love; you never see love from them. They give you an illusion of love by robbing you of your qualities and virtues because they have no love to give. It's just a void.

Any energy you give to them disappears without a trace and never comes back because it never meant anything. You feel drained in the process, overlooked and exhausted by the time you're done with them. They rob you of your energy, which is why even when you try to let them go, they always end up blaming you in the end. They want you to blame yourself so they can continue to deplete you of your energy even as you try to recharge.

You need to validate yourself. Remind yourself that you are the prize. When you do that, they will feel it, and it will eat away at them. It will drive them insane, making them envious and hateful because you were meant to have been destroyed when they were done with you. They expected you to fall apart without them, but you didn't. You became stronger and gained more knowledge, which hurts them because you're still able to obtain happiness without them. They can't sustain a feeling of happiness and well-being, which is why they want to bring everyone down to their level.

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