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The Narcissist Wants THIS More Than ANYTHING ELSE

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There is something that is more valuable to a narcissist than anything else—something they deem to be extremely valuable. And that is something more important to them than money. Contrary to what you might think, many narcissists are not overly concerned about money. Many of them already have money, and a lot of their actions aren't making them any richer. In fact, they may even be putting themselves in situations where they could be losing money.


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What has now become even more valuable to them is your attention. Your attention is what they crave. They want you to notice them, regard them as interesting or important. This need for attention results in more radical and extreme views and more reckless behavior. People become heedless of danger and the consequences of their actions. They engage in dangerous activities without worrying about the risks and possible results.


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People are now willingly changing their beliefs in the hopes that it will persuade others to change theirs. They are transforming themselves in the hopes of influencing and controlling others, all because of the exchange of energy and attention.


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In the past, people did things for money. The more money you gave them, the more they were willing to do for you. But now, they don't even need the money. They don't need anything material, physical, or real. They just need to be seen. They need to be viewed and watched.


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Attention has replaced currency. People are seeking attention, which they see as more valuable than money. This is why you will see more and more destructive acts. This is actually one of the main traits of narcissistic personality disorder.


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Narcissists are attention seekers. They behave in a provocative, outrageous, and reprehensible manner to attract attention. Regardless of whether or not they are attached, they will seek out the attention of others to feel admired and adored. They want people to look at them so they can feel important.


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This behavior is being encouraged and promoted because people are looking. Narcissists are getting what they want—attention—at the risk of danger or harm to themselves or others. By this point, they are not even considering the consequences. Even though they may know that their actions could cause problems or trouble, the attention they get outweighs that.


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They value attention more than safety, security, stability, and comfort. This is a serious problem because people are now trying to outdo each other. They are trying to be superior in action or performance, leading to a very competitive environment. People are copying each other's behaviors and ideas, becoming more susceptible to others' influence and control.


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They are willing to adopt others' behaviors and practices if it means they can get what they want—your attention. This competition leads to extreme and unreasonable actions, affecting society psychologically. It impacts people's minds and emotional states because it is being promoted and is very powerful and effective.


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There are many broken-down people out there, people in poor condition due to disuse and neglect. They are negligent of their duties and obligations and have nothing else to do. They are out there just looking for some acknowledgment, getting the attention they want because they have no higher purpose, no meaningful objective or goal.



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This has a powerful effect on narcissists because they are very competitive and always need to establish their superiority over others. They will go out and commit destructive acts so that people will notice them. Attention is now the new currency, more valuable than money.


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Society is now influenced by narcissism, characterized by extreme self-involvement. People are so wrapped up in themselves and their own thoughts that they ignore the needs of others around them. This creates a vicious cycle. People who aren't getting their needs met may feel they need to become more narcissistic as well, or else they may be left behind.


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This leads to more reckless behavior and thoughtless actions. People don't care about anything but themselves because it's so easy for them to get attention. All they have to do is put it out there, and someone will see it.


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Many people have a low capacity for intelligent thought and lack intellectual ability. They are easily entertained by destructive acts and behaviors, which means narcissism is being promoted. There is a reward for these types of behaviors, and that reward is your attention.



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While it may result in devastating consequences, narcissists don't mind because they still get what they want. They get the result they were looking for. This is why you will see more narcissistic behavior. You will see more people who are only interested in themselves and their own activities because we are giving them what they want. We are giving them identification and recognition.


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People know who they are, so people will remember them and think about them. This is exactly what they want. This is why these behaviors shouldn't even be acknowledged. They shouldn't be exposed to the collective consciousness. They should be kept private.



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This should be common sense. It should be basic practical knowledge and judgment. Yet, these behaviors and activities are being broadcasted on the news and social media, which only promotes them and makes the situation worse.



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