The Narcissist FAKES Being NORMAL

The word "normal" can be difficult to define. To define it, you need a reference point, a standard for comparison, which is likely based on your past experiences with people. Narcissists are adept at tuning into these experiences. They ask many questions about your past relationships to learn how to act and appear as though they conform to what you consider normal.

Narcissists often seem deeply interested in you, giving the impression that you have their undivided attention. However, this is all a façade. They disguise their hate as love. When they are around someone they are deeply involved with, it's because they can't stand them. They experience strong feelings of dislike, reluctance, and lack of enthusiasm. They act like they care about you, but it's just to disguise their rage. Even while you're helping them, they are thinking about how to cause serious problems for you to gain an advantage.

Narcissists can act loyal and committed, making it seem like you have a friendly relationship when, in reality, you are sleeping with the enemy. They want to possess and control you completely, appearing very jealous and wanting to keep you all to themselves. You share your plans, difficulties, goals, and dreams with them, but you wonder why nothing ever comes to fruition. If you trace it back, it's always because of the narcissist's involvement.

You might be praying, reciting positive affirmations, and doing everything you can to progress, but nothing works because the narcissist is discouraging and dejecting you. They may not be doing anything physically; it could be spiritual or energetic. We all have our own energy, and if you're dealing with someone whose energy is the opposite of yours, everything you send out is brought down because they are thinking negatively and manifesting doubt.

Narcissists will never admit they don't want you to succeed. But if you ever exceed their expectations, it shocks and upsets them. They don't expect you to do anything greater than what you're doing. If you do manage to exceed their expectations, they will use their energy to tear it apart. They disguise their hatred as love, pretending to be normal, which can be very confusing. At times, they may seem supportive and encouraging, but if you succeed, they won't be pleased or satisfied. They might say they're proud of you, but their energy says otherwise.

Narcissists may have helped you in the past, but it wasn't sincere. It was just to pacify you, to subdue your anger and agitation, to make you calm and quiet, and to gain your goodwill. They want to feel powerful and superior because they did something for you, which they can use against you later. They hope and wait eagerly for you to need them because something went wrong. This is their reason for doing what they do. Every time you seek comfort from them, you feed their ego.

You need to detach from these emotional memories of past events. They may have done something for you then, but what are they doing for you now? You did things for them as well. Don't let them capture and imprison you based on one thing they helped you with. It's all part of their game. They don't want to see you succeed, but they fake being normal. They disguise their hatred as love, pretending to care about you and wanting to see you do better. Pay attention to their energy. Are they truly motivating and inspiring you? If it's real, you will feel it. Otherwise, they are just giving you words to pacify you, to subdue your anger or agitation, to make you calm and quiet, so they can gain an advantage over you.

Remember, the only intense and passionate feelings they have are hate, but they know how to disguise it as love. It's not genuine; it's not real.

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