Narcissists Are CREEPY

A narcissist is the type of person who can make your skin crawl. They shock and disgust you, evoking a feeling similar to having an insect crawl over your skin—though that comparison might be unfair to insects. Narcissists are absolutely vile and revolting. They lack worth and value, and their behaviour is morally reprehensible. They are foul, unpleasant, disagreeable, offensive, obnoxious, repulsive, and distasteful. Just the thought of them might make you want to curl up into a ball, seeking safety by making yourself as small as possible. Being around them is exhausting and anxiety-inducing.

Narcissists are predators who act in threatening ways, violating numerous social norms and personal boundaries. They actively ignore consent due to their sense of entitlement. Many narcissists are unattractive and socially awkward, projecting their neediness, insecurity, and low self-esteem onto others. This can cause feelings of unease, fear, or even spine-chilling sensations.

They are the type of people who might stare at you for no apparent reason, touch you to get past instead of saying "excuse me," or comment on your body or personal life despite barely knowing you. Even when you express disinterest, they persist. Narcissists are accustomed to rejection and violating boundaries, so it doesn’t faze them. They lack a conscience and are indifferent to the consequences of their actions.

Some narcissists may move cautiously to avoid drawing attention to themselves. They create intense whirlwind connections, only to suddenly disengage because they cannot sustain their false persona. They fabricate the illusion of an instant, deep connection, but beneath the façade, they are uninterested in genuine relationships. Their sole aim is power. Once they sense you are invested, they pull away, leaving you confused and desperate for their approval.

It’s crucial never to share your vulnerabilities with a narcissist. Rather than supporting you, they will exploit your openness. They will use your negative experiences to make you feel guilty, paint themselves as the victim, and shift responsibility for their hurtful behaviour. If confronted, they might feign being easily triggered or accuse you of being overly sensitive, manipulating you into overlooking their toxic behaviour.

Narcissists are pathological liars. They gaslight and distort reality to fit their narrative, making you question your memory or sanity to maintain control. They destroy your confidence and judgment, making you dependent on their skewed version of events. They may compare you negatively to others, undermining your self-esteem. Their goal is not to improve you but to provoke insecurities, making you desperate for their conditional approval.

Narcissists often flirt with others in front of you, talk about their exes, or fabricate scenarios to appear desirable. They aim to make you jealous and insecure, compelling you to work harder for their attention. If you become too comfortable, they might disappear or use the silent treatment as punishment. They want everything to revolve around them, and if it doesn’t, they resort to lies and smear campaigns to maintain control.

They project their flaws and insecurities onto you, sabotaging your success because they cannot tolerate your happiness if it’s independent of them. Narcissists will never respect your boundaries. They perceive boundaries as defiance, which threatens their fragile ego. This can lead to insults or physical intimidation as they attempt to force you back into submission.

Being around a narcissist is exhausting. You constantly walk on eggshells, navigating their moods and overanalysing your words to avoid triggering them. Over time, they erode your self-confidence, leaving you a shell of your former self. They drain your energy and wonderful qualities, leaving you emotionally traumatised before discarding you for someone new.

If you expose a narcissist, they may stalk, monitor, or seek revenge. They create chaos to keep you focused on them, knowing they cannot sustain your interest naturally. They train you to question yourself rather than hold them accountable. They convince you that setting boundaries or expressing discomfort is the problem, not their outrageous behaviour.

Narcissists deliberately provoke emotional reactions, then blame you for your response. They engage in circular conversations, gaslighting and invalidating your emotions. If you call out their manipulative behaviour, they play the victim or lash out in narcissistic rage. These tactics serve to distract you from their true nature while feeding their sense of superiority.

Once you recognise the narcissist’s true nature, you can focus on yourself. Rebuild your confidence, pursue your hobbies and interests, strengthen your friendships, and perhaps find a loving relationship. The smile on your face will return as you rebuild your spirit and heal from the domination and control you experienced. You can finally be free and improve all aspects of your life.

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