The Narcissist CANNOT Love You

Narcissists have an inability to love anyone or anything. However, they must show you something to keep you engaged and involved. They have their own idea of what love is, which they use to satisfy your feelings and keep you calm, preventing further disagreement by making you believe there is an emotional connection.

They know how to imitate love by copying what they've seen other people do or what they've seen in movies. This helps them create the illusion of love and make you feel like it's real. They say and do things to make you believe that it's love, pretending to be something they're not. They chose you because they knew you would be susceptible to their tactics.

Narcissists use future faking, a tactic where they make detailed promises about the future to facilitate bonding and connection. They manipulate you by making the kinds of future promises you want to hear, all to get what they want in the present moment—your attention and validation. They aren't concerned about a long-term relationship, which is why they only make sacrifices in the beginning to get you hooked.

Their idea of love is very different from ours. Their love is dependent on conditions and requirements, with terms, restrictions, and rules. They create an illusion of love by pretending to cooperate with you, but only if you're doing what they want. This controlled behavior is not real love, as love is the opposite of control.