Narcissists Do THIS To Destroy You

There is something that all narcissists will do in their efforts to destroy you. What they truly want is for you to feel hopeless and helpless. They want you to stop caring about anything after enduring enormous disappointment or loss. They aim to make you paranoid, distrustful, and so defeated that you stop trying altogether—because you feel like nothing will help and nothing will ever change.

This is exactly what they want for you, and they will do whatever it takes to bring you to this place. Narcissists are driven by a void within themselves, a void that can never be filled. No matter what they do, it’s never enough. This insatiable emptiness pushes them to extremes, and they will drag you down in their attempt to fill it.

They will drive you to a point where you feel crazy, where you feel like life isn’t worth living anymore. They want you to feel worthless, to question your self-worth. Through relentless gaslighting and psychological manipulation, they distort your reality until you don’t know right from left, up from down. They take you to a dark place—a place you’ve never been before.

You may have a family, a job, a business, or so many things you were once grateful for and passionate about. But now, they’ve brought you to a point where you feel like giving up on everything. You feel like it’s not worth existing anymore. When this happens, they may use it as justification to blame and abuse you even more. They might establish a position of authority and self-righteousness over you, or even start a smear campaign to protect themselves from being exposed.

But here’s the truth: this has nothing to do with you. It’s not about something you did or didn’t do. There’s nothing you could have done differently to change the outcome. Their behaviour is a reflection of their own issues, not your strength or worth. Even the strongest people can be broken down if they are manipulated and abused over a long period of time.

Before you met the narcissist, you may have been living your best life. You might have had your own business, a new house, and felt like you were at your peak—your highest, strongest, and best self. But then, the narcissist entered your life, and everything fell apart. You went from the peak of the mountain to rock bottom, to the lowest and most unhappy point in your life. They dragged you down to their level.

Even when you try to climb out of the pit they’ve left you in, they come back to pull you down again. They want to keep you in that dark place because it weakens you. It causes you to lose your identity until you don’t even know who you are anymore. This happens to everyone who gets involved with narcissistic people—people with families, children, grandchildren, and so much to live for. Yet, they still end up in this dark place, feeling like it would be easier to end their life.

Narcissists want to take you to this dark place because that’s where they live. It’s their permanent residence. They’re lonely there, so they need to pull someone else down to be with them. The happier and more successful you are, the more satisfying it is for them to destroy you. The brighter your light, the more they want to extinguish it. They thrive on the contrast of taking someone full of life and joy and dragging them into misery and despair.

Nothing brings them more joy than watching you suffer because they feel like their own life has been destroyed. They want to destroy your dreams, aspirations, and happiness because they believe it’s unfair that you get to be happy while they’re miserable. They don’t celebrate your achievements or success. They don’t even acknowledge your birthday or give you anything for Christmas. Even if they do nice things for others, they won’t do anything good for you. Their goal is to destroy your happiness and pull you down to their dark place.

But here’s the thing: you don’t belong there. That dark place is not your natural environment. It’s not where you’re meant to be. If it were, you’d feel comfortable there, but you don’t. You’re meant for greater things, and they know it. That’s why they’re jealous of you. They want to extinguish your light, but you can’t let that happen. You must continue to love yourself and shine.

If you let them win, they’ll take credit for your success and ruin your life. They want to crush your self-esteem and make you insecure because they’re deeply insecure themselves. They can’t understand why you get to feel confident, happy, and powerful when they don’t. So, they keep trying to pull you down. But no matter what they do, you keep coming back. You keep going, and you never give up. They can’t understand it because they gave up a long time ago.

You need to keep moving forward. Focus your mind on something else, because if you don’t, you risk sinking into depression and becoming like them. You’re the only one who can pull yourself out of this. No one else can sustain you. The narcissist has been in the driver’s seat of your life for too long, driving you mad and causing endless problems. But they were never meant to have that power or control. You were the one meant to be in control, and if you had been, things would have turned out very differently.

The dark place they’ve taken you to is not your home. It’s not where you belong. You’re like a lion dropped in the middle of the ocean—of course, you’re going to struggle because it’s not your natural environment. But you can escape. You can rebuild your self-love and find the light at the end of the tunnel. It all starts with leaving the narcissist behind. They’re not worth your time, your energy, or your thoughts. Forget about what they’re trying to do and keep moving forward. You’re meant for greater things, and the light is waiting for you.

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