Why You WON'T See The Narcissist Getting Their Karma
- Narc Survivor

- Apr 15
- 5 min read

They cast you aside, stripped you of everything, and left you as a shell of who you once were. It may seem as though they’re riding off into the sunset with a new supply, which might lead you to believe that karma doesn’t affect them or that it doesn’t exist. However, the truth is that they are getting their karma every day—you just won’t see it because they don’t want you to.

The reality is that they never experience inner peace. Research has shown that people with narcissistic tendencies have an increased risk of addiction. This is why narcissists are often addicted to drugs, alcohol, sex, shopping, gambling, and even social media. They use people, substances, and objects in an attempt to fill the emptiness inside, but it never works. The relief is always temporary, so they need more and more to distract themselves from how they’re really feeling.

If you take away whatever you’re giving them, they will feel miserable. Narcissists are deeply insecure and tormented on the inside, which is why they try to medicate with people and things. They live under the grand delusion that acquiring things outside of themselves will make them feel better inside. They need supply to regulate their emotions—attention, superiority, and significance are what they feel entitled to. Yet, no matter what they have, they’re never satisfied.

Narcissists constantly compare themselves to others. If they see that you’re content with something, they will latch onto you because they’re incapable of creating that satisfaction on their own. No matter what they acquire, it’s never enough to fill their void. Their false self will always demand more. If you were their primary source of supply, it’s unlikely they’ll ever find someone who can replace you. This means they will experience dissatisfaction and disappointment for the rest of their lives.

While they may act as though they have everything, they’re still not happy. It might look like they’ve moved on to a new source of supply, or perhaps they have a big house with a luxury car parked outside. But the significance of these things wears off. What was once stimulating and exciting becomes mundane, and they need more to try to feel better. However, no matter who or what they obtain, it will never be enough. They will always end up devaluing and turning against it.

The only way they find relief is by lashing out and attacking others to gain a sense of superiority. They label others as the cause of their feelings to gain a sense of power. Nothing makes them feel more powerful than destroying and discarding their victims, then finding ways to make them come back for more—whether through ignoring, blaming, love-bombing, or discarding them completely.

What they have with a new supply is no different from what they had with you. They feed people’s need for attention and recognition, pretending to care and be interested to get others to serve them. It’s all about them, which is why any relationship with a narcissist is full of lies, drama, and chaos. They lack consciousness and peace, so they can’t be grateful or enjoy what they have. Their internal state and outer life are a mess because it’s all built on lies. One lie turns into hundreds to maintain the façade.

How could they ever be happy? They’re running from the truth of themselves, so they will never feel whole or complete. Once they’ve discarded you, you won’t see them getting their karma because only those closest to them witness it. To everyone else, they wear a mask. Narcissists are great actors with an inflated sense of their own importance, which allows them to create a convincing performance. This is how they often move on without facing direct consequences for their behaviour.

Meanwhile, victims of narcissistic abuse are further victimised and punished by society. They’re often judged as crazy or emotionally unstable because they react to the narcissist’s mind games, while the narcissist remains calm and collected. This makes people believe the narcissist. The reality is that many narcissists are considered likeable because most people don’t see beneath their mask. They either get away with their actions or go undetected because they’re pretending to be something they’re not.

What truly distinguishes narcissists from others is that they don’t let people in on their true feelings. You could be in a relationship with a narcissist for decades and still not know their inner thoughts or self-concept. This is how they’re able to move on and act like they’re living their best lives. They’re pathological liars, trying to provoke and irritate you while concealing their jealousy and pain.

Karma is affecting them internally. They’re constantly ruminating, experiencing repetitive and unpleasant thoughts. They deal with shame, anxiety, and depression, especially after losing you. But you won’t be aware of it because they don’t want you to know. They conceal their true reality. They won’t tell you they’re angry or miserable, so you won’t care about it. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.

Time reveals all. You may see their karma at some point in the future, but it might be best that you don’t. Many of you are empaths and may feel bad for them, even trying to help them. But you need to let karma take its course. If you get involved, you may experience the effects of their karma, which weren’t even intended for you.

Narcissists will hide the effects of their karma for as long as they can. Until that time, don’t believe anything they say or do. They are pathological liars who hide the truth and reality, which is why you won’t see their karma. However, if you were a fly on the wall, you’d witness the suffering they’re going through because they lost you. While things are improving for you, they’re stuck with their new supply, fake friends, and dysfunctional family dynamics.

They are suffering. They are dealing with their karma. But they enjoy manipulating people and orchestrating situations to make things appear differently than they actually are. This gives them a sense of power and control—it gives them supply. If you were aware of what they’re really dealing with, it would bruise their ego and pride. They would be humiliated, and it might even traumatise you. That’s not the effect they want to have on you. They want you to see them as superior, as having a better situation than you. They don’t want you to see them in pain.
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