When You Give The Narcissist A TASTE OF THEIR OWN MEDICINE

When you mirror the bad behaviour of a narcissist—the same harsh and unpleasant treatment they have dealt to you—it often leads to unexpected reactions. By turning the tables, shifting from a weaker position to a stronger one, and reversing the situation, you gain the upper hand. However, when you treat them the way they have treated you, they won’t like it. In fact, they will reject it outright because narcissists despise being matched in energy or behaviour.

Even if you replicate their actions exactly, they will claim that what you did was far worse. They will experience intense anger and shame, and they may even try to hurt you—not just because of your actions, but because you are holding up a mirror to their own behaviour. Narcissists often dislike themselves, which is why they project their negative energy onto others. If you retaliate, they will always play the victim, seeking sympathy and the benefits that come with being perceived as one.

Even if you give them a taste of their own medicine, they are unlikely to change. Instead, they will continue their behaviour because it makes them feel powerful. Narcissists can easily criticise or insult others, but they cannot handle being criticised or insulted themselves. They are acutely aware of their vulnerabilities, which is why they know exactly how to hurt others. However, while you may have been strong enough to endure and overcome their actions, they are not as resilient. If you were to treat them the same way, they might lose their composure entirely.

Narcissists are often weak and ineffective when it comes to dealing with life’s challenges. If you match their energy, they will feel victimised and overreact. They tend to exaggerate the importance of what you did while minimising their own actions, even if both were identical. They will find ways to make the situation seem unequal.

If you want to take revenge on a narcissist, simply matching their energy is enough to unsettle them. However, be aware that they may retaliate, as they are not equipped to handle unpleasant or critical treatment. They prefer to be in control, striking first to avoid being hurt themselves. When they targeted you, they likely studied you in-depth to determine whether you were the type of person to fight back. If they believed you wouldn’t, they felt emboldened to bully and intimidate you.

Even if you do stand up to them, they may not back down. Instead, they might spiral into a state of shock, unable to comprehend your actions. They may have been hurting you for years, but the moment you retaliate, they will overreact and escalate the situation. Narcissists cannot handle being treated the way they treat others. They do not want to be lied to, cheated on, or criticised. They are deeply insecure, which is why they often try to control others and avoid criticism at all costs.

If you give a narcissist a taste of their own medicine, they will likely smear your name and play the victim. They will talk about your actions but never acknowledge their own abusive behaviour. They will label you as the abuser and accuse you of things you haven’t done, while denying their own wrongdoings.

The best way to deal with a narcissist is to walk away. Refuse to help them, just as they refused to help you. Remember all the times they needed you and took advantage of your kindness. By moving on and refusing to engage, you show them that you deserve better. Seeing you thrive without them will make them realise they couldn’t break you, and that is the ultimate way to reclaim your power.

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