When Narcissists Know You Don't Want Them ANYMORE
- Narc Survivor

- 7 hours ago
- 3 min read

There was a time when you were infatuated with them. You had an overwhelming feeling of love and attraction toward them. You couldn’t get enough of them, and you probably would have done anything for them. But now, you’ve reached a point where you don’t want them anymore. You’re done dealing with their behaviour, and this realization breaks their spirit. It causes them severe emotional damage because they can see the shift in your feelings.

Narcissists are heavily dependent on your emotional reactions as a source of supply. They’re not oblivious—they notice when your demeanour changes. They can tell when your energy has shifted, and they know it’s real. They sense that they no longer have the same effect on you, and it makes them feel inadequate. They were once dependent on your validation, but now it’s gone, and they feel the loss deeply.

Narcissists thrive on attention and validation. They need constant reassurance to boost their fragile egos. Even if you gave them the world, it would never be enough. They are ungrateful and always want more. When you stop giving them the attention they crave, it disrupts their sense of self-worth.

They took you for granted, assuming you would always be there. They were disloyal and dishonest because they believed they could find someone else to do what you did for them. But now, they see that your energy has shifted, and it’s all on them. They feel the consequences of their actions, and it humbles them.

Narcissists are like black holes—no matter how much you give, it’s never enough. They drain your energy and resources without giving anything in return. They are incapable of reciprocating because they have nothing to offer. Their excessive need for validation stems from a deep void within themselves, a void that can never be filled.

When you stop reacting to them, it forces them to confront their own inadequacies. Ignoring them completely is the best way to protect yourself. It humbles them and diminishes their exaggerated sense of self-importance. They may act as though they’re the best thing in the world, but it’s all a delusion. They haven’t achieved anything to warrant such pride, and their inflated self-image is nothing more than a façade.

Engaging with a narcissist only depletes you. They will never appreciate your efforts, no matter how much you do for them. They are ungrateful and incapable of genuine connection. They live in a world of their own, where everyone else is just an object to be used for their benefit.

Cutting ties with a narcissist is the best thing you can do for yourself. When you let go, you’ll notice how your life begins to improve. You’ll elevate while they diminish because they need you far more than you need them. Without your energy and attention, they lose their power.

Narcissists are empty vessels, dependent on others to feel a sense of worth. They manipulate and mirror you, reflecting your own qualities back to you to gain your trust. But in the end, they only take from you, leaving you drained and depleted.
The best way to deal with a narcissist is to walk away. Stop giving them your energy, attention, and validation. Focus on yourself and your own well-being. By doing so, you’ll reclaim your power and create a life free from their toxic influence.
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