When Narcissists Do This, WATCH OUT!

Narcissists are completely self-absorbed. They're preoccupied with their own feelings, interests, and situations. They only care about themselves and don't view others as real people. You're either a positive or a negative extension of them. Initially, you may not realize that you're a positive extension of a narcissist. Pay attention to how they treat the people around them, especially exes, waiters, employees, or anyone they deem inferior. This will reveal who and what you're dealing with.

However, this honeymoon period doesn't last long. Narcissists are the exact opposite of normal, functional people. If you are around someone who is emotionally healthy, the more time you spend with them, the more your value increases. But with a narcissist, the more time you spend around them, the more your value goes down. They begin to treat you with contempt.

Narcissists are dysfunctional, and it's inevitable that things will go wrong. They will have mood swings or depression and lash out at you. In their minds, it's black or white; it's either you or them, and it's never them. They believe they are perfect and expect favourable treatment at all times.

They genuinely believe that if they want something, they should have it, regardless of whether they earned it or deserve it. They will shame you for wanting anything from them, as though you're not meant to have your own feelings and needs. They see you as an extension of themselves and expect you to want whatever they want.

Although you may be emotionally starved and may not remember a time when they paid attention to you, you will find yourself going out of your way to meet their needs. They only value you for the service you provide to them. You're just an object that exists to meet their needs.

Narcissists are very insecure and lack a sense of self. Anything you do or have is a threat to them. They need the spotlight to feel special and maintain their false character. They know they have nothing of value, which is why they are so insecure and controlling.

They are arrogant and entitled as a defense mechanism against how they really feel about themselves. It has very little to do with you. They don't see you as a separate person but as a tool to make themselves feel better. If you don't meet their needs, you're useless and worthless.

If you dare to ask for something in return, they will call you selfish and shame you for having feelings or needs. They will rage or ignore you and may even smear your reputation. They believe they deserve things others do not, even though they never put in the work.

Narcissists expect people to see it as a privilege to be around them and feel entitled to abuse and mistreat you. They expect you to read their mind and know exactly what they want. If you don't do it perfectly, they will punish you and take revenge.

They may discard you and triangulate you with someone else to further punish you. They want you to feel worthless and never good enough. If you fail to meet their unrealistic demands, they will hold you accountable for their own wrongdoings.

Narcissists expect everyone to see things their way. If anyone disagrees, they will be publicly shamed and humiliated. They won't accept alternative ideas or perspectives. If opposed by an authority figure, they will either pretend to agree or give the silent treatment.

In some situations, they will stalk and harass you, physically or socially harm you, or financially abuse you. They will do anything to put you in danger and degrade you. If you're dealing with a true narcissist, there's very little you can do to resolve it.

They will get mad whether you contact them or go no contact. They are emotionally unstable and have obsessive thoughts. They don't feel comfortable unless they've ruined you or have you under their control. They lack control of themselves and are deeply insecure.

Narcissists are constantly trying to control things outside of themselves. They are envious and jealous and never satisfied. They will hunt you down to make you feel their pain and put you beneath them. They can't generate their own contentment and peace of mind.

Once you're involved with them, there's very little you can do. Many have connections with law enforcement and befriend police officers to maintain a position of power. They want to be the one who punishes you and expects you to apologize and comply with their orders.

They feel entitled to abuse and mistreat you because they feel like they're not enough. They have a void that can never be filled, which is why there's no cut-off point for the abuse. They are never satisfied and need to see you as inferior to reinforce their mask.

Narcissists were valued only for their image and achievements rather than who they actually were. They learned to hide everything bad about themselves from a young age. There is no winning with an entitled narcissist. Even if they have everything their way, they will still want more.

They will find fault with you and need justification for why they can never be happy. They want nothing to do with themselves and need attention and recognition. They need someone to abuse or else they would implode and go insane.

People end up giving in and catering to them. They are surrounded by enablers while the victim is isolated and alone. The abuse always escalates with time. It becomes normal to you, and you tolerate things you never thought you would.

This is the inevitable result when dealing with an all-encompassing narcissist.