THIS IS WHY The Narcissist Will NEVER Let You Go

In some situations, the narcissist will discard you and move on to someone else. But that's not what I'm talking about in this video.

In this one, I'm talking about narcissists who are more possessive and controlling. If you are dealing with someone like this, it's likely that you are their primary source of supply.

In these situations, the narcissist will never let you go. They will never let you escape or be free. They will never release their hold on you because they don't want you to act or do as you wish. They want you to remain under their control, which is why they confine and imprison you, isolate you, and cut you off from other people. They want to be your only source of influence.

You may be under the illusion that the narcissist has gained access to your life and that you need to get them out. But it doesn't work that way. You don't even have a life of your own. You're not experiencing real life because they have brought you into their fake world, their false reality. To achieve this, they had to strip you of your power, your identity, and your character traits—everything that makes you who you are—so that you could be a false character in their fake world. Nothing real can exist in their world; it would destroy the illusion and bring the truth to light, which is the last thing they want. So you have to be fake too. You can't have any real identity of your own. You have to be whoever they need you to be so that the false narrative can continue.

So what do you do when your entire world is fake? You have to resort to visualization. You have to use your imagination to represent objects, situations, and information as something more positive and productive, something that will be more beneficial for you. You have to picture in your mind the things that you want in and out of your life because that is how you're going to heal and recover. You can't get them out of your life. Once they've got a foot in the door, they're never going to leave. It benefits them to remain with you, so they're going to hold on for dear life. They're going to trap you in their web, in their world of lies and perception. So you have to remove yourself from their world because that is the only way that you'll be free.

The narcissist will pull you in, but then you have to be the one who leaves because they can't change, move, or adapt. They stay the same, and sometimes they get worse as time goes by, as they begin to feel more comfortable around you. But they will continue to repeat the same behaviors until the day they die. They will only adapt if they think that it benefits them. They won't do it for you; it's only to further their own agenda. The primary trait of a narcissist is that they can't adapt or change. Instead, they will blame you and resent you because they know that they need you more than you need them. They also know that, in fact, you would be a lot happier without them.

But they're still not going to leave, and you won't be able to get rid of them because they're not going to go anywhere. They need you. They feed off you. They depend on you for their own survival. So you have to be the one who leaves.

The narcissist may cheat. They may keep other people as secondary sources if you're no longer meeting their needs. But that doesn't mean that they're going to leave. They will still keep you on the shelf for when they need you, but they will entertain other sources of supply when they go out. They will keep you at home as their primary source because they need to have other options at the ready just in case something goes wrong. They always find a way to mess things up, so they need to be prepared. They need to have people ready to support them.

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