THIS IS WHY The Narcissist Will NEVER Change

Narcissists are self-absorbed, and they lack empathy. They're arrogant and entitled, with an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance. They believe they are inherently deserving of privileges and special treatment. They need a constant supply of attention and admiration. To gain it, they will use a likable false character to attract you. This endless need for attention compensates for their low self-esteem, confidence, and a perceived lack of acceptance, which often stems from early childhood trauma and attachment issues. Because they didn't receive enough love as children, they now use people as objects to obtain what they lacked in their childhood. If they cannot get the positive attention they need, they will settle for negative attention.

Narcissists may choose harmful actions over positive ones. They might engage in wicked and immoral acts, hurting others rather than doing what is morally right. There are two types of people in this world: those who build and those who destroy. Some choose to destroy because they believe it benefits them more.

At some point, they might have tried to do things right, but it left them feeling less significant and powerful. They assumed that being narcissistic gets them what they want and meets their needs. This belief led them to develop traits of dominance and control, making them less compassionate to what others are going through.

They developed a scarcity mindset, believing there's not enough to go around. They don't worry about the pain they cause because they believe they would lose something by doing so. Their insecurity and lack of confidence stem from a perceived lack of necessary qualities and abilities to succeed. There's no incentive for them to do good because past attempts didn't go well.

How a narcissist treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves. They choose harmful actions because they're not happy. Even though engaging in these acts may sometimes get them what they want, it doesn't make them happy. Deep down, they know they're not deserving of it. They know they don't possess the qualities and abilities that would justify their rewards. They hide their actions because they know they're wrong, leading to feelings of shame.

These are the effects of their karma. Whatever you put out is what you will get back. They suffer the consequences of their wicked and immoral acts because they know they're not deserving of anything good. Yet, they still choose to do it because it gives them instant gratification.

This is why the narcissist will never change. Eventually, they will experience the effects of their actions and won't find satisfaction in anything they do. They may not even realize that it is the result of what they did to you, but it is their karma. It is the law of cause and effect.

Promoting good and moral behavior is essential, not just because it's the right thing to do, but because everyone deserves to be happy and comfortable. Treat people how you want to be treated because everyone deserves to feel safe and secure.

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