THIS IS WHY The Narcissist Is About To Hoover You

When the narcissist first targeted you, they idealized you. They put you on a pedestal, and in that moment, you were perfect. But then they started to feel insecure because of your success or achievements, or because you began to confront them on their false mistakes. This triggered the narcissist, causing a narcissistic rage, and they began to devalue you. They insulted you, put you down, domesticated, and enslaved you, making you run on an endless hamster wheel trying to please an unpleasable person.

Without realizing it, you were trying to satisfy their insatiable desires. But at some point, you began to realize your power and that they could not satisfy you. They could only manipulate and deceive you, giving you an illusion and a false character. For a time, you were susceptible to their spell, but eventually, you woke up. This awakening triggered the narcissist to reflect on their true self, making them feel worthless and insignificant.

However, narcissists can't self-reflect for long periods. They can't be vulnerable or admit their faults or mistakes. They have to maintain a facade of perfection, which means they can never be genuine or real. Once you catch on, you're as good as dead to them. You become a lost cause, and they usually want nothing to do with you unless they think they can get you back under their spell. They assume you will give them another chance and forget everything they did to you.

When they come back, they don't think about everything they did to you. They often come back expecting you to take the blame or act like nothing happened. They don't take accountability for their actions, which means they never change or grow. They stay the same until they die. Even if you take them back, they will do the same things that originally hurt you because that's all they can do. They need to do that to get supply. They can't be vulnerable or emotionally connected to you because of their fragile ego. They need to feel superior again. They have a black-and-white mentality where people are either all good or all bad. Deep down, they feel completely worthless, so they project this onto you to feel normal.

Even if you take them back, they are never going to change, and it won't be good for you. This video is meant to educate you and prevent you from experiencing further trauma and abuse. With that being said, here are five reasons why the narcissist is about to Hoover you again:

When you put the final nail in the coffin of your relationship with the narcissist and decide you've had enough, the narcissist will feel triggered. They are envious and jealous, very insecure, and can't deal with rejection or abandonment. They fear being exposed and worry that you might move on and find someone new. So, they will try to come back to take control and disempower you, sabotaging the success you've achieved since they were gone.

Narcissists have a fragile ego. They base their self-worth on the judgment and acceptance of others and tend to have an unstable sense of self as a result. They don't know who they are; they are just whoever they think people want them to be. If they struggle to find a potent source of supply, they will be defensive and prone to critique. They need a primary supply to provide them with security, stability, and comfort to make them feel like they exist. So, they will come back to gain your attention and validation, needing you to validate the illusions of their false character.

When a narcissist seeks new supply, they can be very gullible. They always think the grass is greener on the other side and are always looking for the next shiny new toy. They may fall into the arms of a master manipulator or another narcissist, or they may find someone who is not as great as they initially thought. They often make poor decisions due to their lack of logical thinking and tendency to act on emotional impulses. When this happens, they may re-idealize you and try to come back, not because they love or miss you, but because they miss their supply.

If you loan the narcissist a lot of money, you probably won't hear from them for a while. The bigger the loan, the longer they stay away. If they do come back, it's only because they want something. They are users, always taking and never giving back. They are manipulative and deceptive, often leaving you feeling sad and depleted. This behavior stems from their childhood traumas and how they were raised.

Narcissists are always on the hunt for supply and managing risks or threats to the illusion of their false character. They are paranoid and afraid of being exposed. They will come back to learn your behavior and gather more dirt to smear your name, isolate, and control you again. This is all to protect their false image and supply, which is crucial to their sense of existence.

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