THIS IS WHY The Narcissist HATES YOU

As I've said before, narcissists are haters. They may even openly tell you that they hate you, but if you asked them why, they couldn't explain. This is because they lack self-awareness and feel inferior to you.

They hate on you to make themselves feel good and to make you feel miserable. When you were just trying to be nice and love them, they couldn't receive your love because they are very insecure with who they are as a person.

They see your success and accomplishments as something that happened by luck or coincidence. They don't consider the work that you put in. All they see is the finished product of who you've become. Initially, they admire that, but then they start to turn against it when they realize that they are not you and cannot control you. This is when they begin to hate you.

They never gave you credit, praised, or complimented you on your achievements or success. They never congratulated you because they don't do the hard work or dedication; they only see the finished product. They don't see the steps you took to get there. This makes it easy for them to devalue and hate you because they wish they had what you have, but they know they can't.

They lack the ability to maintain an activity or commitment despite fatigue and difficulty. They lack discipline and are very ungrateful, never satisfied with anything. They are also very lazy, unwilling to work or use energy. They lack determination, strength of character, and firmness of purpose, which are typical traits of someone who hates or is a narcissist.

Yet, they will still hate on you. Even though you have determination, strength of character, and firmness of purpose, and you've made use of those qualities to get to where you are today, they don't acknowledge those qualities. They are only concerned with instant gratification, looking for an immediate reward. They don't want to work on anything or commit, which is why they try for a short period but then quickly disappear.

They don't have the right mindset that produces success, which results in them becoming very envious and jealous, leading to hatred. They take on a victim mindset, feeling like the world owes them. They develop a strong sense of entitlement because, in their minds, they are no different from you, so it's very unfair. This makes them feel worthless, which is why they are so arrogant.

They exaggerate their sense of abilities and importance to compensate for their feelings of worthlessness. They are not doing anything to change their situation, so their lack of accountability prevents them from achieving results. This is why they develop a victim's mindset, feeling like they will never achieve or get what they want. This causes them to engage in extreme behavior, such as cheating, lying, and stealing, because they feel like victims and think it's unfair.

They are impulsive and make reckless decisions that affect other people's lives because they cannot make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions. They are out of touch with what is usual, typical, and expected, so they don't have an exit plan. They feel like everything is unfair to them, so they become haters.

They have a lack of regard for what you have accomplished and achieved. They disrespect it or don't care because it's not them, but they secretly desire and wish it was them. They don't respect it and are just looking for a way to steal it from you or con you because they don't want to put in the effort and work. They don't believe in behaving honestly and honorably or following the rules.

When they see you progressing, it affects them because you are happy and doing well. They don't believe it could be done fairly; they think you have to lie to people and manipulate them. So they end up hating you. They can't stand you because it takes a lot of energy for them just to get a mere fraction of what you can do effortlessly. You've figured out how to do it well by using your own qualities, talents, and skills, which they don't have.

This irritates them because while it's effortless for you, they have to put in a lot of time and effort. Their entire life becomes a state of great activity, where they are forcibly encouraging people to buy something, working rapidly and tirelessly, creating great disturbance, confusion, and uncertainty. Everything is unpleasantly breathless, unkind, cruel, and harder. By having that way of life and seeing you presumably have it easy, because they don't understand the hard work you put in, it affects them. It makes them hate and envy you because they know that you are better than them in more ways than one.