The Narcissist Is NOT REAL

The person you think they are is not real. That character does not have its own objective, independent existence. It is something that was injected into your mind, where you unconsciously incorporated their attitudes, values, and qualities into yourself. You are mourning and grieving the false character, which may make you believe it is real because it exists in your mind. However, you have simply absorbed the qualities of an external object into your psyche, forming an internal object or mental representation that influences your behaviour.

You are giving your power to something that has no independent existence of its own. You are making them appear more valuable and special than they truly are, as though they are something highly desirable but difficult to find or obtain. It may seem that way while they are with you, but take a look at their chaotic and disastrous lives after they have left your side. Observe how they live once they are no longer around you, and you will realise they were never that special. They were only special in your eyes because, as an empath, you stimulate interest, activity, and spirit. You gave them life and excitement. You created their "specialness."

Everything around you appears more special because your energy and emotional state give out a feeling and atmosphere that is communicated to and felt by the narcissist. It is a distinctive feeling and quality that can be sensed. It is your aura or energy field—it is magical and inspirational. It changes the narcissist's energy, and you may feel an attraction towards them, but it is your energy that creates this. This is why they behave very differently when they are not around you.

When they are in your presence, they are arrogant, entitled, and even more full of themselves than they already were. Yet, nothing about them has actually changed. They are exactly the same as they were before they met you. You have simply surrounded them with this atmosphere of magic. When they are not around you, they leave it behind, and they are no longer that special. The only reason it feels special is because of you.

When you see how they have gone on in life, you will realise there is nothing special about them at all. There is nothing good about them—they have just fizzled out. Empaths have this magical energy about them. You radiate positive energy, self-confidence, and optimism, which makes the narcissist appear more special because they are moved by your energy. You bring the excitement and activity. However, at other times, they dismiss your energy because they are low on supply and not feeling good about themselves, so they take it out on you. Anytime it feels magical, it is only because of you.

This is how they have the ability to ruin the energy you create—because that energy is coming from you. They bring that energy around you, and it becomes offensive and unpleasant unless you choose to uplift them. When you do that, it becomes fair and easy-going, happy and magical. The narcissist may seem special when they are around you, but once you stop talking to them and see what they are doing without you, they do not look special at all. They only look special internally because you have interjected them into your energy and the vibe you are creating. They are better with you, and that is the only reason why they have a hard time with you. They felt like they did not have enough of you or your value, so they felt like you treated them unfairly. They are bitter and resentful because when you leave, their life falls apart.

They have to go to extremes, like attending raves or clubs, to match the same type of energy. They act like they are having a great time without you, but in reality, they are not happy at all. They are merely trying to distract themselves and get their mind off you. When they leave, they fall apart and go through difficult times. When they are with you, they are much calmer, more confident, and in control of their emotions. This is because you, as an empath, are not easily moved, upset, or disturbed. You are sane, well-balanced, steady, and secure, which is very attractive. You engage in behaviours and activities with a conviction of progress, success, and moving forward, to such a degree that they have to match your energy. However, when they leave you, they revert to their usual ways, which is a foolish mistake on their part.

You made them appear as the special person they wanted to be. As an empath, you elevate everyone around you, but it also feeds their ego and makes them more arrogant. This arrogance leads them to stop listening to you. They will always remain in a secondary position, which means they will only achieve poor results, while you will heal and move on.

When you meet the right person for you, you will experience strong feelings of friendship, love, shared beliefs, and experiences that unite you. All you received from the narcissist was nonsense, masked by your energy and aura. You made it seem like something it was not. You made it look better. When they are in your energy, it brings out the best in them and makes their positive qualities more noticeable. However, when they leave you, they realise there is no one else like you. They cannot find another empath.

When they were around you, they felt alive and free because everyone who is around an empath is better. They chose to go against you, and that is why they get the results they do. People who listen to you, like you, and understand you the most are the best people. They have better energy, and when you are together, it is special. This is why, whenever you have something—whether it is a relationship or a new job—it is something everyone is jealous of. It is because of your energy. That is what makes everything you have so attractive to others. It makes everything look fun.

When the narcissist decides to leave, they end up ruining their own lives until they finally try to come back to you. They realise there is no one else out there who can make them feel the way you do. It is as though they had the winning lottery ticket and threw it in the bin, acting like it was nothing. That is why they later obsess over it—they took it for granted. They assumed it was everywhere or that they could find something better. They already had their way with you and had you under their thumb, so they decided to leave, thinking they could do better, only to find there is nothing else out there.

You made them feel the best they had ever felt in their entire lives, and they will never find anything like that again. When they come to this realisation, they feel regret and a sense of loss over a missed opportunity. It hits them like a tonne of bricks, and they cannot get you back. While you were around, they took it for granted. In your absence, they feel a sense of loss and are left to settle for a life that is far less fulfilling. They once had something fulfilling with you because you made them feel special. You made them feel like they were the only person in the world, as though they were the only person that mattered to you. Most people in this world will not be able to make them feel that way, which is why, when you leave, they fall apart. They do not have the energy you have.

You had a false beginning with a fake person—someone who was not who you thought they were. This is why what you could have created will never become a reality. They were never that person, which is why you did not go together well. At first, they may have seemed to be that person, but then you realised they were not. When you wake up to that, there is conflict, which is why they play a lot of games. When it is all said and done, they will feel a sense of loss from your absence because they did not know what they had until it was gone. They did not appreciate you until they lost you and realised there is nothing out there even remotely close to you. That is a very unpleasant experience for them.

If they want to mess things up with you, let them. Let them go out and experience other things because they will not be able to see past you. They will realise they had the best thing with you. However, if you take them back, you will be making a big mistake. They left thinking they could replace you and are only coming back because they realised they cannot. Their plan was to leave you feeling like you missed out on something, but when they do that, it backfires on them. They did this because you made them feel special, but even that was not enough for them. They got greedy and still wanted more.

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