The Narcissist Is Even More DANGEROUS Than You Realise

They are more dangerous than you realise. They cannot regulate their own emotions, which is why, when you're involved with a narcissist, conflicts seem to last longer than usual or necessary. They have a void that can never be filled, so they will continuously draw out your emotions. But no matter what they do, or how much you react to them, it will never be enough because they can't be satisfied.

You can never pour enough into their cup to enable them to pour into you. Their cup has a leak at the bottom, so no matter how much you pour into them, it will leak out, leaving them empty again. This will drain the life out of you because it is extremely stressful and exhausting. You invest so much into this person, yet they lack the emotional capacity to reciprocate anything back to you. This drives you to emotional exhaustion, as your world becomes consumed by them.

After spending a certain amount of time around them, you may look like you've seen a ghost. You may appear scared or shocked because they constantly induce fear and anxiety in you as a means of control. They will make you feel unimportant and small. They will ignore you, isolate you, and discredit you to the point where you can no longer function. They are empty, so they can drain you in an instant. No matter how abundant your energy and emotions may be, it will never be enough to sustain them.

While your energy may be enough to sustain you and make you feel happy and healthy, it will barely affect them. This is why they have to suck the life out of you until you can no longer think clearly, calmly, or rationally about what is in your best interest. However, when you remove yourself and enter an isolated space, you can instantly feel yourself healing. You can sense your energy replenishing, whereas, when you're around the narcissist, they drain your energy dry.

They can trick you into believing they have power or energy, often by mirroring you. By reflecting you back to yourself, they give you space to replenish. However, what you really need is to spend time alone, where you can breathe, drink plenty of water, eat healthy food, and cut toxic people out of your life. This is crucial because narcissists are very dangerous to your body, mind, and soul. It does not matter how strong and resilient you are; narcissists are empty, and no matter how much energy you have, they will take it all, leaving you drained.

Witnessing your pain is extremely traumatic for anyone, even those who are not directly involved with the narcissist. This is why you must get rid of them. How you feel after they have drained all your energy and emotion is exactly how they feel every day. They feel better about themselves when they unload their traumatic experiences onto you, seeking your validation, attention, or sympathy. Although this does them more harm than good because it is one-sided, it initially makes them feel better, as it gives them a sense of not being alone.

They unleash their trauma onto you because they cannot deal with it on their own. This is very damaging and can destroy a person. If you are dealing with a narcissist, you need to make an exit plan. They may not be physically strong, but they can destroy you mentally, which is something you cannot prevent, regardless of how strong or resilient you are. They will suck the life out of you, and there will be nothing you can do about it.

Narcissists are so broken inside that, if they bond with you over their traumas, you will lose yourself. Even being in contact with someone who is being abused by a narcissist can affect you, especially if you witness the abuse. It is contagious and spreads like wildfire. Narcissists carry so much distress and hopelessness inside them, causing drama and chaos, which they dump onto you. However, there is nothing you can do to help them because they do not want to hear the truth, so they cannot change.

The only way they can feel better is by trauma bonding you to them, making you feel exactly what they feel inside. This is why you need to be very selective about who you spend time with. Narcissists will trauma bond you to them, but there is nothing you can do to help or stop them. The only solution is to go no contact. Otherwise, they will ensure they are always on your mind because they feel hopeless and helpless inside.

Narcissists cannot form healthy bonds with you, whether through courtship or sexual activity. They bond through trauma, abusing you until you form an emotional attachment to them. This creates a deep emotional bond with someone who is causing you harm. They cannot be alone, so they attach themselves to you, ensuring they are always on your mind. This is dangerous because they carry so much unresolved trauma and are unable to cope with it.

It is best to remove them from your life, as this will bring you peace. You will be in your own energy and feel good. However, as long as they are part of your life, you will feel anxious and uneasy. They will upset and disturb you, creating confusion and disorder. They disconnect you from yourself, directing all your attention, energy, and focus to them. This deprives you of sensation, fear, feeling, and responsiveness until you feel nothing but what they want you to experience.

You must cut the cord, sever ties, and break the attachment. Leave them behind because you need to live your own life and be on your own mission. Life is not meant to be lived for someone else. When you are around them, you become comfortable with their treatment of you. It is only when you leave and rebuild your energy that you can sense them clearly. When they are around, you feel confused, anxious, and unable to think clearly or act intelligently.

Narcissists create pressure and anxiety, making it hard to breathe. They give you a sense that something is wrong, keeping you nervous and on edge. They try to trap you and make you their next victim. This is why it is dangerous to have any contact with narcissists. They love contact because they do not want you to forget about them. They want to overwhelm and suffocate you, doing whatever it takes to keep you stuck.

They will shame you for trying to talk about it, making you think you are the problem. They do not want you to question anything, which is why it is dangerous to attach to a narcissist. It is fine to attach to healthy people, as this will make you feel good. However, narcissists create soul ties, trapping multiple people at once. They are dead inside and will affect everyone they are involved with. The longer you are attached to them, the worse it gets. It never improves.

They will drain more and more energy from you until you cannot function normally. This miserable experience causes you to become unemotional, unable to feel anything because they have taken you to a dark place. The only way to heal is by coming back to yourself and focusing on improving your health. Once you have returned to good health, surround yourself with people who are as healthy as you—people who do not overly attach to you or drain you, but instead have good energy.

Avoid those who poison-drip your energy. They may appear to have a positive impact on your life, but they are slowly taking away from you, reducing your ability to think. You may not notice it initially because you are infatuated with the breadcrumbs of attention they give you. However, they are negatively impacting you, giving nothing back to replenish you. This is why you need to cut them off. It is toxic. By doing so, you will break the trauma bond and return to happiness. You will no longer be involved with someone who refuses to be an active participant in their own life.