Narcissists Will Do THIS To You IN THE END

Narcissists will give you all sorts of lies and false promises. They will act as if they're on your side, supporting you, and promising you a future. But whatever they have led you to believe, you will never get that from them. In fact, everyone who has dealt with a narcissist has experienced the same thing.

Not only do you not get what they led you to want from them, but they also end up destroying your dreams, your cherished aspirations, ambitions, and ideals. These visions that you created in your imagination, all the things you wanted to happen, are shattered. This has a long-lasting impact and consequence, becoming your legacy as a result of their past actions and decisions.

It's something you have to deal with on your own because they're not going to be there for you. Even though they stripped you of your potential and limited your capacity to become something in the future, they robbed you of your future. Whether it was something you experienced in your childhood or later in life, they lied, made false promises, and used these to control you, getting what they wanted while restraining your freedom and restricting your full potential.

They tied you down and held you back from being the person you could have become, the person the world will never know. They insulted you so many times that you lost confidence in yourself, making you believe you weren't good enough for anything. You didn't take action, or maybe you were just trapped in a relationship with this person who promised you the world but invalidated you, leaving you to think deeply about this confusing situation.

They may have stolen your money or property, and you may have lost a career that showed signs of future success. They may have gaslighted you into doubting your abilities, knowledge, and even your own sanity, making you feel like you were losing your mind. You spent so much time thinking about the things they said because you couldn't understand how they could have no ability to imagine how you feel. It was very confusing and made you question everything until you ended up talking yourself out of your own ambitions.

You stopped desiring and wishing for achievements and success. You began to feel hopeless, and your confidence plummeted as your situation showed no chance of changing or improving. While you were being gaslighted and invalidated, you experienced a lot of shame, overthinking everything that happened. You felt like you didn't even have the right to follow your dreams, as though it was morally wrong or unjustified for you to work towards something you desired or hoped to accomplish in life.

You feared that even if you accomplished it, they would only shame you or try to destroy your success, leaving you feeling like you weren't good enough. So, you didn't take the chance to advance your position. You didn't become the person you could have been. You didn't manage to make your dreams a reality. In the end, you're left with the idea that you're stupid or that you don't even know who you are because it's all just to silence your hopes and ambitions.

They laughed at your desires of achieving something, mocked you, and diminished your accomplishments. They minimized everything you worked hard for until one day you accepted that you were just fighting a losing battle. You were trying to do something when there was no chance you would succeed, so you stopped trying, which is exactly what they wanted all along. They sabotaged your dreams because they were very insecure and couldn't tolerate your success. They deliberately destroyed it, undermining your aspirations because their fragile ego couldn't tolerate your success.

They saw your success as a threat to their ego, affecting their identity and self-esteem, which wasn't even genuine. It was a false sense because it was tied to your success or lack of success. They kept you stuck to prop up their false character because what you had was real. You established something out of your own love for wanting to give value and contribute to the world, which are incredible things the world will never get to see because a fragile narcissist couldn't tolerate your success.

A normal person would want to talk about your dreams. I know for myself that there's nothing that brings me more joy than knowing I am making a difference in people's lives, even though I may not have had the best start in life. But when you're dealing with a narcissist, it's like instead of running a sprint, you're running a marathon with a weight around your ankle. They set you up to fail in life, preventing you from becoming your best self.

They didn't care about the magnificent things that could have happened for you or the impact it could have had on the world. It's a painful thing to accept, but yes, the only person they care about is themselves, even if it is at the expense of everyone else. In the end, you learn to accept less than what you really deserve. You're forced to limit yourself and give up on your dreams because they needed you more than you needed them. Your success was terrifying for them, which is why they restricted your freedom and limited your power to act, speak, and think as you want without hindrance or restraint.

In the end, they destroyed you and didn't even give you an explanation. You're left to figure it out on your own and repair the damage they caused. They do it under the guise of a joke to deceive you and give you a mistaken impression so that you continue to trust them and they can continue to get what they want from you. They expect things to return to normal and may even expect you to laugh along with them, even though they were the cause of your own ruin. If you get upset, show concern, or start crying, you're just too sensitive, too serious, and have an inability to find things funny.

They will continue to blame you and never stop their mockery and ridicule. They don't see anything wrong with destroying people's dreams and limiting their potential. In their minds, it's a funny story, just a joke, and if you don't get the punchline, then the joke's on you.

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