Narcissists Are Actually VERY WEAK

A lot of people think that narcissists are powerful and strong because they seem to have a lot of energy. It may appear that way at times, but they are actually very weak, and I will prove this to you in this video.

Narcissists are unable to withstand force, pressure, and wear. They lack moral and intellectual power, confidence, and determination. They are easily influenced and worried by other people, which is why, whenever you're around them, you feel like you have to protect them, as though you have to keep them safe from danger or harm. It's like they are a threatened species because they are. They were never meant to make it this far because they are not independent; they depend on their sources of supply. They require and demand limitless special treatment, admiration, validation, and importance, which feeds their sense of entitlement and self-centeredness.

Narcissists will deliberately find or create situations where they are the center of attention. They use a false character to manipulate people and bring them into their realm because what they are really seeking is support and assistance. They can't manage themselves successfully on their own. Once you're involved with them, you will find that they are too much to bear. They are overwhelming and insupportable, like their own worst enemy, because everything has to be about them. They need constant attention because they never developed the emotional faculties to sustain themselves.

When the time comes for them to be brave and tough to deal with a difficult or unpleasant situation, it's too overwhelming for them. It's too much stress, too taxing mentally and physically. Even if they just have a single task to deal with, they feel mentally drained. This is not the result of anything external; they lack the mental and emotional capacity to deal with things. They end up being burnt out and experience mental collapse caused by stress, which they then take out on the person closest to them because they can't carry the weight on their own.

Narcissists are like a small car with a small engine trying to tow something heavy; it taxes the engine and causes too much stress, damaging it. They can't handle even a simple task on their own or regulate their own emotions, making them very dangerous people to be around. Emotionally strong people are safe to be around, but weak people who act nice and as though they can handle things are actually the most dangerous because it's just a recipe for disaster. At some point, they are going to explode, and you are left to deal with the consequences and clean up their mess.

Narcissists can only pretend to be nice; they are not very pleasant or agreeable at all. There are many unresolved issues beneath the surface due to a lack of self-reflection and self-awareness. They don't even know who they are because they are too busy using external sources to regulate their emotions. It's like an elephant in the room that no one talks about because they don't want you to talk about it, but it's always there. You feel like you always have to sugarcoat things around them to protect them and make them feel safe, so you're always walking on eggshells, extremely cautious about your words and actions because any little thing could set them off.

You end up holding yourself to impossible expectations in the hopes that it will make them feel more comfortable. You have to be perfect, in two places at the same time, doing two things at once, two steps ahead of them, like an all-seeing, all-knowing entity. But at some point, you learn that this is what they want. They need you to be with them at all times, to check in with them, to tell them your plans, and to know what you're doing and who you're with. Nothing can be unpredictable or unforeseeable where they may be left feeling uncertain or doubtful because their identity and sense of self depend on where you are and what you're doing. They see you as an extension of themselves, so they need to have full control over you.

This is why they will devalue you, try to keep you down, and even discard you if it gets too much for them. This all stems from their weakness and fragility. Even after they discard you, they will try to find someone else to support them until they realize that person is imperfect too, and then they will try to come back to you until they assume that it's all over for you and you can't handle them either. Then they will begin a campaign based on lies and falsehoods about how you mistreated them or how you weren't good enough, even though you may have given them your entire life and everything you had.

Narcissists will build destructive networks behind your back because they are seeking protection, support, and assistance. They lack moral and intellectual power, confidence, and determination, and they are easily influenced and worried by other people. It doesn't take much for them to see you as a threat because they are very weak and fragile people. They hold the stance of being moral and righteous people when, in fact, they will cheat, lie, and steal. They will deceive you, future fake, deny, project, blame shift, and gaslight. They will keep a code of silence where they expect you to act like nothing is wrong and see them as perfect. All of these behaviors stem from weakness, which is why only low-value people conduct these behaviors. High-value people don't need to do that because they can advance by being honest, righteous, and moral. Weak, low-value people cannot do that; they have to cheat, lie, and steal because they lack the power to perform and the mental and emotional capacity to achieve anything on their own.

Even if you work your fingers to the bone on their behalf, it still isn't good enough for them because they are easily threatened and intimidated. They feel inferior to you, so they start to hate you and decide to tear you down because they need to domesticate you and keep you in a box where they can control you. But it's not really you they are trying to control; they are trying to regulate their emotions through you because they view you as an extension of themselves. They don't see you as a separate person, which is why they have to isolate you. Your independence would otherwise reveal to them that you are a separate person, which would destroy their false reality. They would be forced to accept that their thoughts and emotions belong to them, which is the last thing they want to do because they are weak and can't deal with it on their own.

Everything they do is designed to protect their fragile sense of self. It's why they devalue you, keep you down, discard you, and then come back with a hoover. It's why they cheat, lie, and steal. It's why they can't leave you alone. It's why they smear your name and build networks against you. They are emotionally bankrupt and void, with no place from which they can draw love, kindness, or empathy because they are broken, damaged people. They lack value, usefulness, and normal function. If you pay attention, you will notice that even their communication appears robotic, stiff, and unemotional, like a machine programmed by a computer, guided by some external control device rather than being real and authentic.

When you try to talk to them and understand them, the communication seems rehearsed, like a public performance, as though they are just stating a list of points made many times before. They have broken and imbalanced perspectives, experiences that inflicted damage on their psyches, resulting in a lack of steadiness and soundness in judgment. In their childhood, they were taught that it's okay to be weak, to lack the force of character to hold their own decisions, beliefs, or principles, to lack enthusiasm and energy because someone else will take care of it for them. They have never had to stand up for anything in their entire lives, whether for someone else or themselves. They have always been surrounded by enablers who protected their distorted reality, people who told them they don't have to do anything, resulting in a lack of character, discipline, and willpower.

Narcissists have to cheat, lie, and steal to survive. They have to build networks that support their narrative because, in reality, they were never meant to be alive. They were never meant to make it this far, and deep down, they know it. They have to feed off other people because they can't generate anything life-sustaining from within. They can't sustain themselves, so they can't sustain you. All they can do is drain you of your life and energy because they are weak. When you are around a strong and powerful person, you will feel strong and powerful. When you're around someone who feels weak and fragile, you will feel the same way unless your strength and confidence are great enough to pull them into your reality. But with narcissists, that's very difficult to do. No matter how strong and confident you may feel, it's just a matter of time until they pull you down because they are extremely negative and pessimistic. Deep down, they already know they were never meant to make it this far in life. They know they are doomed, and when you're constantly around that type of energy, it suffocates you and makes you feel trapped or oppressed because they have already given up on themselves.

Instead of trying to manage themselves and become better people, they choose to manage other people. They were never meant to have any source of power to begin with because they are not doing anything productive. They are not leading people anywhere good or inspiring people. They are just bringing everyone down with them because that's all they can do. They can't uplift people because they have no fight left in them. They gave up on themselves a long time ago, which is why they are so weak. Our power is meant to come from within, not from controlling other people. That's just an illusion of power, something taken from another person and claimed as their own, not something generated from within. This is why they have to isolate you and try to keep you to themselves because they know that without you, they would have gone insane by now. They can't survive without supply because they have no higher purpose or calling. There's no incentive for them to do what is right because they abandoned themselves a long time ago. They already know they are doomed. They chose to be selfish and greedy instead of having empathy for others, which made them weak.

What you give out is what you get back, which is why they have to build these networks. Their entire lives, they were selfish and only cared about themselves, so now they have to fabricate stories to build a network where they are protected and empowered by others who assume they are telling the truth or who may doubt them but choose to go along with it anyway. This is the only way they can make up for a life of only caring about themselves. They have to build a false reality where they rob people of their identity, where people become agents to a joint purpose and a false reality that doesn't make any sense. This is the only way narcissists can harvest their power. They can't generate it from within because they lack empathy and don't care about anyone but themselves. The outside world is a reflection of our inner world, so if we don't love and respect others, it makes it impossible for us to love or respect ourselves. Narcissists have never shown empathy for others, so they wouldn't even know where to begin. They would have to start by taking accountability for their past actions, but they have so many skeletons in the closet they wouldn't know where to start.

They know that if they came out, it would get real, and no one would accept them, so there's no incentive for them to act right. It's like they have no choice but to continue on this path because they already know they shouldn't even be alive. They should never have made it this far because they only got this far in life by cheating and deceiving people rather than doing anything on their own. They manipulate and control people with tools or toys they hold onto, which they see as a source of power. In reality, they are disempowered because they have to resort to manipulative tactics instead of being authentic and generating their power from within. They see these tools as something that will protect their fragile sense of self, something that will protect their weaknesses and insecurities. They develop unhealthy coping and defense mechanisms, resulting in them acting like an unruly child who always has to get their way, even though they never did anything to earn it. They place you in a parental role where you are meant to help them grow and develop, responsible for their mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and social development. You are left to give direction, impose rules, use discipline, set limits, and establish and follow through with consequences.

At the same time, they don't want you to have any power because they need to have the power to sustain their false character and the illusion. If you had the power, it would completely destroy it. This is why they assign you to these character roles to try to take your power away from you because that's what they are using to sustain the false reality. Without that, the entire thing would fall apart, and they would be left in the rubble, dazed and confused. This is why they hold onto it so dearly, to the point where it almost becomes like their religion, a pursuit or interest they follow with great devotion, giving a great deal of their time and energy to it. Deep down, they know it's the only thing they've got. They have nothing else outside of it because they never took the time to establish something real and authentic.

After some time, the false character replaces the underdeveloped true self, becoming who they actually are. They become more overt, not even needing to wear a mask anymore. This is often the result of their network of flying monkeys and enablers because, by that point, they can do whatever they want and know they will get away with it. There's nothing to keep them in check. They never built a character with intrinsic values or morals; it was purely self-serving. Because they are so selfish and greedy, there's really nothing they won't do if they believe they will get something out of it. They are weak, lacking discipline and direction, which is why they have to direct and control you. When people lack control and direction within themselves, they feel the need to control and direct others. If you feel strong and secure within yourself, you feel no need to control anyone. That's what love is. Love is freedom; love is about letting go. But these individuals have no love in their hearts because they lacked empathy from the very beginning, meaning there was never anything for them to develop or work on.

By default, all they can do is take from others to sustain their false character, thinking that's living when, in reality, they are not even alive. They don't even feel alive, which is why they have to build networks of flying monkeys and have constant sources of supply. It's the only way they can feel alive. They can't feel alive on their own; they lack passion and purpose. There's nothing keeping them together, which is why, whenever you are around them, it's like they fall apart. What you have is what they are missing, something they can't generate from within, but also something they can't receive or experience, yet still desire to be a part of. This is why you have to be their parent because they lack direction and control within themselves, so they need you to guide and direct them. At the same time, they have to control you.

Whenever you are around them, you will feel like you have to baby them, as though you are dealing with a child. But they are like a child that wants to be the parent, wanting to manage and control you. This is why they don't like it when you question or confront them unless they can use it to get supply. They don't like it when you are looking for answers because they already know they have something to hide. They cannot react logically or give you a reasonable explanation for their behavior because they know it would expose them. Everything has to be about your feelings or emotions. They have to intimidate you or become passive-aggressive, pulling you down with them to sustain the illusion. A rational argument would completely destroy it, so they have no choice but to remain emotional around you because that's the only way they can get their rocks off. They can't do that if it's just two adults having a sensible conversation. They have to resort to feelings, insults, and attacks. Although they are heavily dependent on you, they are also seeking independence from you. They are trying to detach but can't because they never fully attached to you.

They never fully accepted you as the person you actually are. Instead, they developed a mental image of you when they first met you, and that is what they hold onto for dear life because they need it. There's nothing inside of them; they have a void and need you to fill it so they can feel whole and complete, even if just for a moment, so they can feel like they have a higher mission or purpose. But that doesn't mean you can be their friend because they deeply hate and envy you. They secretly admire and respect your independence, but it's you and not them, so they want to destroy it to prove to themselves that they are strong and powerful, even though that may never be the case. They gave up on reality a long time ago, so they will happily settle for a false reality where they are the prize. You will never be able to connect to them or get through to them. Even though it may seem like you are getting somewhere, you are not. It's still just a part of the game. They will never understand your perspective because they lack empathy and are more concerned with their own interests and needs. They will never be able to understand. They may recognize that you are a healthy and productive person, so they will use closure and validation to further manipulate you and lead you astray until the time comes when they are ready to destroy you because that's all they can do.

They are weak. Strength is the willingness to accept other people's ideas and perspectives, to accept that others have a different way of living, which is something narcissists cannot do because everything has to be about them. At the same time, they have a fragile sense of self and live in a false reality, so anything else is a threat to them, which they have to monitor and control. Deep down, they already know their character and reality are not real. They know it's not real because it doesn't produce anything good. If it produced something good, the signs would be there; it would produce success over time. But it doesn't because what they are doing is not right. Yet they continue to repeat the same things again and again because they have lost their minds. Creating a false reality is an extreme action taken out of desperation. Desperate people do desperate things. As Albert Einstein once said, "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." But that's just where these people are in their minds. They are stuck on a loop because they are weak. Only those who possess great strength and willpower are able to break the pattern, but they lack discipline and control. Even if they could do that, it would only last for a short period and be used to manipulate you. They just haven't got it. They are nothing like us, and deep down, they already know it, which is why they do what they do. For these reasons, you will never be able to connect to them. You cannot connect to a weak person. It takes strength and courage to face things head-on, and that's just something they can't do. They are too full of shame and defeat. They already know there's no hope for them, which is why you will never be able to love them, and they will never be able to love you. They see love and vulnerability as a weakness. They can't be vulnerable because they see it as though that makes them stupid or foolish and as though they are exposing themselves to danger or harm. This should reveal to you exactly who they are.