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Losing YOU Is The Narcissist's KARMA!


Many people wonder if narcissists ever get their karma. The truth is, they do. As I mentioned in my video, the smear campaign will ultimately destroy the narcissist and their enablers. However, what I’d like to discuss in this video is how losing you is, in fact, the narcissist’s karma.



You are kind, generous, confident, genuine, balanced, and understanding. You made them feel safe and at peace. You boldly and kindly shared your truth with them, rather than concealing or suppressing anything. Losing you is their karma because you are the best thing that will ever happen to them. And as you continue to work on yourself and become even better, their loss becomes even greater.


When they lose access to you, that is their karma. Even if they don’t come back, even if they’ve moved on, even if it seems like they’re doing better, they will never find a better version of you. There is only one you. They may have said things to make you feel bad about yourself because they couldn’t have you. They put you down to make themselves feel better.


They see this as a form of self-empowerment, as it makes them feel stronger and more confident. But they wouldn’t feel that way if they didn’t put you down. Losing you is their karma, and deep down, they know it. They just don’t want to accept it, so they lie to themselves. They talk badly about you because it makes them feel better. They have to break you to feel better about themselves and to justify their actions. Otherwise, they would have to face the truth—that they made the wrong decision.


They need you more than you need them. While they may have left you broken, you are not destroyed. You can rebuild yourself to be better than you were before. It all starts with working on and empowering yourself. That is the worst karma they could ever face—seeing you achieve the things they said you couldn’t do, whether it’s going to college, getting a job, starting a business, or making new friends.


By setting you free, they’ve allowed you to experience new things—things that have nothing to do with them. This is why they tried to isolate you. They wanted to hide you from the world, to keep you all to themselves. They didn’t want you to realise your value because they feared you would see that you are greater than them. They wanted to trap you, to confine you, to keep you as their possession.


Even though it may seem like they’ve moved on or are happy, remember that appearances can be deceiving. People may have thought you were happy when you were with them, but they didn’t see what was happening behind the scenes. They were abusive and toxic, while you were focused on healing and growing. They were focused on keeping you down, preventing your healing and development, because they knew they didn’t deserve you.


One of the most powerful things you can say to a narcissist is, “Have the life you deserve.” They know they don’t deserve anything good. They know they deserve a bad life. That’s why they didn’t value or respect you. You were the best thing that ever happened to them, but they didn’t know how to treat you or take care of something so valuable. That’s why they often downgrade after you, ending up with someone who is less than you—someone who may have even known about the abuse but chose to be involved with them anyway.


The narcissist will get their karma because losing you is their karma. You don’t need to take revenge or set out to hurt them. All you need to do is rebuild and heal yourself. Seeing you thrive will hurt them more than anything else. Even if they think they’ve found someone better, it doesn’t matter, because that person isn’t you.


You don’t need to compete with anyone else. You just need to recognise your own strength and attributes. Don’t worry about the narcissist. Wherever they go, they take their toxic spirit with them. They may seem happy on the outside, but inside, they are miserable. Meanwhile, you will continue to grow and become the best version of yourself. They will never find another you. They will never find another source of supply with the same level of potency, and this will drive them insane.


This is why they triangulated you with others, why they complimented others in front of you, but never let you know your true value. They devalued you so that you would see yourself through their eyes. But now, you can break free from their narrative. You can rebuild your self-worth and recognise your true value.


The narcissist will often try to come back, but sometimes they can’t because they’ve burned the bridge. They may have smeared your name or reported you to authorities, making it difficult for them to return. Even with their new supply, they will be spying on your social media, checking in on you, because their new partner cannot satisfy them. They will be left desiring you even more.



You, on the other hand, will move on. You will find someone who loves and respects you. You will explore new hobbies, find your purpose, and realise that this experience doesn’t define you. It makes you stronger and more resilient. You will learn to screen and assess people better, keeping toxic individuals out of your life.




The narcissist will notice your growth. They will see that you are no longer hurt, that you have healed and become stronger. This will affect them deeply because they lack self-awareness. They will pretend to move on, but they will never truly get over you. Even if they marry or have children with someone else, it won’t feel the same as it did with you. They will always be thinking about you.




While they are emotionally unstable, you brought them a sense of stability. They destabilised you while you provided them with a foundation they will never find again. For you, this experience can be transformative. You can find something better—something that benefits you and helps you grow.




The narcissist, however, will struggle to find your replacement. Most people are not as calm, peaceful, or consistent as you are. They will become angrier, more hostile, and make life miserable for themselves and those around them. They burned the bridge with you, and now they are left with regret.


Losing you will always be the narcissist’s karma. Their mental instability will sabotage everything they try to accomplish, while your mental strength and stability will bring abundance into your life. Things will only get better for you, and this will frustrate them even more. They will keep tabs on you, but they will face their karma through you.


You were the best thing that ever happened to them, and yet they mistreated you. If you had never met the narcissist, you may never have found these lessons. This experience has a purpose—it is to awaken you. This is how karma catches up with the narcissist. By being involved with them, you are now healing and awakening to a higher level of consciousness.


Take your healing journey seriously. Realise that losing you is the narcissist’s karma. They will never get over you. They will never find another you. Meanwhile, you will no longer have to deal with their parasitic behaviour. You can build a better future for yourself while they live with regret. They will search for you in others but will never find you. That is their karma—a result of all the bad things they did to you.


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