DO THIS To Keep Narcissists Out Of Your Life

You may desire to find people who you think could be your friends, people with whom you can connect and associate. However, you would have to rummage through to separate what is useful from what is not, to find something that could be good for you. But you need to be very cautious, especially after you've been dealing with a narcissist, because now you're in a vulnerable state. Someone could come along just to take advantage of you.

Be Cautious After Narcissistic Abuse

This is why you need to be careful about who you let into your life. Ensure that you're only letting in people who are on your level—people who are honest, straightforward, and sincere—so that you know they are not attempting to deceive you. When you get involved with people who are not on your level, you start to get caught up in all kinds of things. That's when you start to get into trouble because you're opening yourself up to people who are lesser than you. All they're going to do is try to manipulate and control you so that they can use you to their advantage. They already know that they're not going to be able to sustain anything long-term with someone of a higher caliber. By default, they're just going to see you as something they can use in the moment.

Surround Yourself with the Right People

It doesn't mean that you have to be alone. It just means that you need to find people who are going in the same direction, people who have a purpose, and people who have their own intentions and objectives outside of what they have with you. People who are creating things on their own. If they don't have their own purpose and don't have anything to keep them in check, it opens the doors for them to cross over your boundaries and gain access to your life. Then you're forced to accept standards that are lower than what you desire. You're forced to lay yourself over the danger and harm after everything you've worked for and established in your life.

Stay Focused on Your Purpose

Motivational speaker Jim Rohn famously said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. We are greatly influenced by our friendships and relationships. It affects our way of thinking, our self-esteem, and our decisions. This is why you need to surround yourself with positive, supportive people who want you to succeed. If you want to be better, you need to be around people who are at least on the same level as you. You can't go down and start settling for less than what you deserve, for people who are less than what you value yourself. Instead, you need to participate in competitive situations with people who challenge you. Be consciously aware of the people you're around and the people you choose to let into your life so that you stay focused on your purpose.

Conclusion

Those who surround themselves with a lot of people and are very active on social media for recreational purposes tend to be the most unhappy and unhealthiest people psychologically. They are neglecting their most important relationship, which is the relationship we're meant to have with ourselves. So remind yourself of your purpose in life. Remind yourself why you're doing everything that you're doing. What are you striving for? What are you trying to achieve? Reserve some time for self-reflection. It will prevent you from getting involved with people you're not meant to be involved with.

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