Avoid Sexual Contact With The Narcissist
Avoid any sexual connection or engagement with the narcissist. Once you have realized what you are dealing with, you naturally begin to resist them. You no longer want to deal with them anymore. Once you become sexually involved with them again, you strip away your resistance to them. You have given them access to you, where they have then been able to weaken your resistance to them. The energy that you put into resisting them has now been made weaker in strength. It makes them see you as though you are weak. As though you have little strength or energy. As though you are lacking power or influence. Because they are still able to gain access to you. They are still able to possess your body and use it for their own needs. The narcissist should not have any access to your body. When you are engaged in sexual contact with the narcissist, they then have control over your body. Once you have decided to leave the narcissist, they shouldn't have that kind of access to you. It gives them the opportunity to steal your energy. The energy which was meant to help you to resist them.
Once you let the narcissist around you, once you engage in sexual contact with them, they know that they have destroyed your defense, which was meant to protect you.
They have weakened your power, resolve, and strength which you have developed to resist them. They have broken through and destroyed it. Now you need to start all over again. You need to rebuild your defenses. But now the narcissist has got into your mind and implanted a deceptive appearance or impression. A false idea, feeling, or belief. It develops a false emotional connection. It makes you feel as though you have developed some kind of bond with them. Which then gives them further control over your mind. As you continue to have sex with them, they gain more of an ability to affect you psychologically and emotionally.
You are giving them your body. And through having access to your body, it gives them access to your mind. It gives them the ability to make changes to your thoughts and feelings.
They can play with your emotions whenever they like. This is why narcissists want sexual contact. They understand the mind. They know that by having access to your body, they can then manipulate and control you. They can then direct and influence your behavior and the course of events. Once they have gained access to your body, they can then gain control over your mind. Once you have decided to give yourself to the narcissist, they know that you have little strength or energy. They know that you are lacking power or influence. They know that you are not going to be strong enough to resist them. If you cannot resist them physically or sexually, you cannot resist them mentally or emotionally.
Avoid sexual contact with the narcissist. Don't let them entice you into sexual activity. Don't let them attract or tempt you by offering pleasure or advantage. You need to fight the desire to do this. Once you do it, you are inviting them back into your life. The manipulation will continue. Severe mental and emotional suffering will continue. And then they may even find other things that they will persuade or convince you to do or to believe. You have to avoid all sexual contact with the narcissist. Then they will begin to realize that they no longer have power over you. They will begin to realize that they no longer have the ability to direct or influence your behavior and the course of events. Don't allow your body to be contaminated by the narcissist's energy. Don't allow your body to be made impure. When you have sexual contact with them, they will contaminate your body. Once they have contaminated your body, it will then spread and contaminate your mind. It will weaken your power, resolve, and strength and make you feel bewildered or perplexed.
This is why you need to avoid sexual contact with the narcissist.